Hmmmm...

[maxjunk]

OK, so one of my friends has been having sex with a few people in the last few weeks. She basically will do it with anyone. I've been having sex with her, but I'm not really sure if she has any STD's. I don't want to bring up the subject of testing for them, because she would get pissed at me. How do I handle this? I don't want to get herpes or anything haha. But can you guys help me figure out what to do?

[Browser]

Suck it up and get tested together. If she's not mature enough to deal with that, she's not mature enough to be having sex. Always use a condom.

[dancingdoc2]

Yes, indeedy.

> I'm not really sure if she has any STD's.

Consider this fact: The person you have sex with today is not the only person you will have sex with today. Huh? When you have sex with a person, you essentially will have had sex with every other person s/he has ever had sex with in the past.

If you have yet to develop a long history with a partner and know what s/he has been doing sexually in the past, plus have every confidence in this person's integrity, you are best advised to go together to get checked out. Then you will have a new Square One from which to begin. No wondering, no worrying unless one or the other of you is promiscuous.

Why go to the clinic together even if you know you are "clean"? It demonstrates a good faith involvement and investment in the future. It demonstrates to her that you are willing to show her proof as well.

[Brandye]

1. Forget her - protect yourself.
2. Get tested.
3. Stay away from her.

Having looked at all your posts, you have chosen a descriptive handle.