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[griot]

Somebody tell me what to do or advice on pills to take to cure premature ejaculation.

[dancingdoc2]

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[LustyLisa]

Unfortunately there is no pill you can take for PE, though I have seen a certain Rx being prescibed "off label" ( meaning it's not FDA approved or compensable by an insurance company to treat PE ). There are desenstitizing gels that some men find helpful, I think I've seen it from The Sinclair Institute. There is also condoms since they reduce the degree of sensation men feel during intercourse, that may help.
But, the biggest obstacle to overcome is in your own head and loins. You need to learn both physical and mental techniques that help you control yourself. It also helps to have a sensitive and compassionate partner to help you since you may have to do allot of stopping before you go beyond the point of no return.

[YHeloThar]

Well basically there are a few things you can do.

#1. Pretend you're doing something else when you're having sex.

This is pretty much everybody's technique, you pretend you're tying your shoes, throwing a football, playing soccer etc. You have to start doing this before you hit the point of no return (pretty much when you feel your penis start squeezing like it's about to ejaculate because it's too late already). Some guys I think maintain their imagining of doing something else during the entirety of sex, and other guys only have to do it when they're closer to getting off. But I think this is the average guy's technique for sure.

#2. Make a safety word or something and back off

You stop having sex whenever you're about to get off basically and calm yourself down for a bit, maybe switching to manually stimulating her for a while. I guess this works but I don't really like it because typically the reason I'm about to get off is because she has tightened up as she's about to come.

#3. SSRIs

Some doctors have started prescribing anti-depression drugs called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) to avoid premature ejaculation. If you've ever been drunk and tried to have sex you know it's quite a bit harder to get off. Apparently this is what it's like to have sex with the right dosage of an SSRI like Paxil. I don't know if you also experience a weaker or sorta numb erection - I've never been on SSRIs. I think probably only a psychiatrist would prescribe this and likely not that many of them either. I think most doctors would consider your PE to be nowhere near as important as maintaining a natural brain chemistry and SSRIs can have some major side effects in your brain. You could become dependent on them too so when you decide to go off them for whatever reason you might actually become depressed, giving you a disease that you didn't have before.

#4. Desensitizing spray or condom
This is probably the easiest thing you can do that might work. Basically you go to a sex shop and buy a spray. This is sorta like a local anaesthetic that will numb your penis. I don't really like them because my erections aren't as strong when I use them. Durex makes a condom that is meant to make you last longer called Performax. It has a grey wrapper and contains a bit of benzocaine on one side that you slip the condom on and rub around a bit to properly desensitize you.

I don't really like these things because a) my erection doesn't feel as hard, and b) I don't think it's the sensitivity of the penis head that gets me off anyways I think it's just the feeling of squeezing on the shaft which can't really be stopped using sprays or condoms.


I know where you're coming from though, I don't have the typical PE per say but I only really want to get off once and I get off fast as soon as the girl is about to climax (when she tightens up). I wish I could last another 2-3 minutes at that point because it feels incredible.

[dancingdoc2]

1. Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

2. Enjoy a climax an hour or two before engaging in intercourse.
Having a climax before making love will slow most fellas down most of the time.