Is it okay that we don't use a condom?

[qqkachoo]

I'm on birth control. If I miss a day, we use a condom for atleast a week.

He had a C-section when he was born (which makes it so that he doesn't go through the vag, aka doesnt pick up stds. his mom is tested and doesn't have any)

I am tested and don't have any

He was a virgin before we started having sex.

Is this wrong? He usually pulls out, he says that sex without a condom feels so much better for him.

However a few days ago (it was my fault really) it felt incredibly good and i begged him to keep going, so he came inside of me. :X

[Mr. Saint]

It is usually suggested that you use at least two forms of birth control. The pill is very affective and you are probably safe even if he does not pull out. However I would suggest using something like a spermicidal lube or foam in addition.

[dancingdoc2]

People in their teen years are the most prone to become pregnant for a variety of reasons. We here recommend at least two forms of contraception and three are better. Why?

It is important to take care of A#1--both of you look out for yourselves first and foremost. If he is not ready to become an unwed father he should be wearing a condom. If you are not ready to become an unwed mother and perhaps have the rest of your life and future plans changed, then you should use the pill and the spermicide as recommended, above.

I understand the argument that condoms rob a fella of a lot of the sensations; however, this is no excuse to try and hedge your bet with Mother Nature. The only form of contraception that is close to 100% reliable is abstinence.

Pulling out is hedging a bet and is not very reliable. Both of you should consider that there is sperm not only in semen but precum as well! You two are in fact playing a form of Russian Roulette except instead of a gun with one bullet in the cylinder, he has a fully loaded cannon pointed your way.

[Brandye]

Most mature women in stable relationships use only the pill. Younger women in not completely understood relationships should insist on a condom both for additional contraceptive protection AND, let us face it, you really do not know where he has stuck that thing.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Oh so you're okay with having to pump your body full of hormones risking heaven alone knows what from that and yet he gets off scot-free?!?! What is he - a boy that needs to be coddled, in which case what does it say about you that you're having sex with a kid, or a man that faces up to bearing his part of the burden of having safe sex?

Yes, this is not only an issue of pregnancy and/or the transmission of sexual diseases, yeast infections, etc. - it is also an issue of self-respect and maturity. You should care enough about yourself to demand he use condoms each and every time. He should be man enough to show you respect by wearing one. Of course it feels better - duh! But it hardly the honorable and manly thing to let you bear the responsibility for safe sex all alone.

BTW his being born via C-section means nothing.

[Gorgeous Mistake]

Don't mind getting an std or becoming pregnant, don't use one.

If you do care about your health and do not wish to have a child just yet, use a condom.

Good luck

[Spicygirl82]

I agree with what everyone else has posted. That said, have him try some ultra-thin condoms such as Crown Skinless Skin condoms. Those have better sensation.

[Ducy]

Go with polyurathane (sp?) they honestly have the best sensation, and transmit heat incredibly well. (IMHO closest thing to having sex without)

[lnt1103]

Hey, Doc, you forgot your 'wiggle room' suggestion, mind if I make it for you?

Put a little lube on the head before the condom goes on-it will help with sensation for him.

And I would second EEK's statement that the C section has nothing to do with tea in China. That was about his interaction, or lack thereof, with his MOTHER'S vagina, not any that his own 'piece' comes into contact with, which is the issue here.

[Ducy]

Int:

What? I dont understand that last point one bit.

And yes C section has nothing to do with him contracting STD's as a unborn child. He will get it through transmission of the blood that he shares with his mother.