Condom Issues

[Brainbow]

Okay, well, I wasn't really sure where to put this. I'm 18, so I considered putting it in the teen section, but I realized I'm not "new to sex" so that doesn't work, so I just decided this would be the best place for it.

My problem is this. With my ex-girlfriend, I never used a condom because she was on a birth control patch and she didn't like the feel of condoms. However, my new girlfriend cannot get birth control yet, and I want to be safe and use a condom.
The big issue, and this is really screwing up my sexual confidence, is that I put on the condom fine and dandy, and we start to do the deed, but halfway through, I go totally soft. It's incredibly embarrassing, and humiliating, and probably totally non-enjoyable for her (and I really want to make her feel good).
I'm not one of those guys who wants to bully his girlfriend around with the whole "I can't feel anything with a condom on!" line, so can anybody give me any tips on how to better sustain sex with a condom on?

Or point me to the right part of the forum, heh...

[sera300]

Try to put some lubricant inside the condom to help.

[wellmannered_squirrel]

you can buy custom condoms on internet.

You print a "ruler" cut it out and mesure yourself, then you can pick from different girth and length according to your measurments or, if you like it looser, than just order a size larger.


Another thing you can try is to masturbate with a condom on. Do it often so you get use to it. I don't think that it's uncommon for men to loose their erections when they first try condoms.

[Brainbow]

Well, thanks for your suggestions