having sex...spilt and i realised what now???

[Robobby759759]

OK
well i was having sex with my girlfriend and we were doing fine then we moved to much and i noticed that it was ripped!!
we stopped straight away and both of us hadnt cum'd yet.
we had a look at the chances of pre-cum pregnancy etc but nothing really helped that much.
We bought a vaginal foam and used it straight away.
WHAT ELSE DO WE DO???????/
HELP

[unknown11]

take the morning after pill and maybe get a preg test

[Robobby759759]

ok but what about all the side effects that happens to this???
is there no other way.......she is also only on day 10 and ouvaltion doesnt start until day 13, so does this help or anything????

[Robobby759759]

im really scared here guys, i need help.

if i did pre cum wat are the chances that she is pregnant???

it will be 72 hours by the 31st of January, does she rele need to take it??

and this douching, is this an example of using a vaginal foam with spermicides after having sex, coz we have done that.

omg i need help rele quick

[hotlips1]

Well only thing I can say is get one of those early test and test. Hopefully she hasn't ovalated yet.

[sera300]

Go out and get Plan "B" and take it ASAP. Do it now...Follow up later in the month w/a preg test...get her to begin taking BCP & use condoms.

[demonbuttercup]

Its probably not likely she is pregnant, but you can't go by ovulation. Young women's cycles are unpredictable... plus sperm can live in the body for several days.

I don't think vaginal spermicidal foam "after the fact" does any good. It should have been used along w/ the condoms....and then this wouldn't have been an issue... but hindsight........
If you used a douche...like Summer's Eve or something like that... that wasn't a good idea. Douching can sometime even force or push the semen farther up inside the body.
There is a big difference between a douche and spermicidal foams/inserts.

I would just call a planned parenthood or county health clinic...explained to them what happened and ask what they think the best course of action is.

Yea, the MAP may have side effects... but a baby is a worse side effect.
Then in the future either use condoms and her on BC pills or condoms w/ spermicidal foam/inserts/etc.