need advice.. i think im obsessed..

[Angel87]

I can't cum or even enjoy sex anymore with a condom.. all I can think about the whole time is a guy cumming in me (I am a female by the way) I don't know what's wrong.. I can't even use the pill patch or needle because the hormones and such make me depressed and suicidal.. I don't know what to do .. this is getting dangerous ... I'm too young to have kids and not ready.. but if this keeps up who knows what will happen I have no control......

[unknown11]

either be depressed or use a condom only coice it seems, also next time acually post what this is about cause it is very annoying to people who just say HELP or SUMEONE HELP ME and most people will then ignore your posts

[Brandye]

Angel,

The IUD is an often overlooked and good alternative with or without hormones. There is also the ring which puts much lower levels of hormone in the body than the other systems. Discuss these alternatives with your doctor.

For us, as women, the resistance to the condom is often psychological and I can identify with what you are saying. We women are biologically programmed to receive that little shot of enriched semen into us and there is a certain satisfaction with knowing that hundreds of millions of sperm are swimming inside you. That is the biological purpose of our structure. Think this through; I have often shared your issue. If, however, the problem is "mechanical" (the condom does not feel right) try changing brands. The poly feels better than latex with frequent use and there is always the female condom. I have found that men find them to feel more real but I do not.

Unknown,

What is your problem?