Pulling out... is it safe?

[skipgirl]

so i just started havin sex w/ this guy i'm seeing and he's had sex with other girls and has pulled out....so when we first had sex together, it was my first time, and he pulled out...i'm just afraid since this is not safe whatsoever...i got period thankfully but i'm just afraid that next time he won't be so careful...do u think if we continue this i will end up getting pregnant?

[NizeGie]

You already know the answer:

this is not safe whatsoever

For a number of reasons: you have 0 protection against STDs, it's not safe preganancy-wise even if he does pull out in time, he may not, you have no control over whether he does or not ....

If this worked, why would there be a whole industry devoted to producing methods that do work?

[dancingdoc2]

That pretty much tells it like it is.

My question is why would you have intercourse knowing that you are at risk for getting STDs, knowing that the younger you are the more at risk you are of becoming pregnant, knowing that you cannot trust him to pull out in time, knowing that he may not be able to care for and support a child, knowing that you may not be either, knowing that the plans for your future may be changed at any time you do this in the future?

I urge you to not do this a second time until you are prepared to fully take care of Number One--you, by acting responsibly.

[moose_hd]

The only thing I have to add to this is that pre-cum contains semen. He does not necessarily have to ejaculate to get you pregnant!

[Psyle]

If you want to be safe you should be using 2-3 forms of contraception.
Like condoms (1), spermicidal cream which often come on condoms (2), and then something like the pill, an IUD, or the sponge (3).

[cunning_plan]

Originally Posted by moose_hd

The only thing I have to add to this is that pre-cum contains semen. He does not necessarily have to ejaculate to get you pregnant!

quite right. thats the fatal flaw in pulling out. that and if he gets carried away.

[xoxoKahluaxoxo]

the first time i had sex he didnt have a condom. thank god im not pregnant, but i was stressed out for a month till my next period. i think it helps if you are at the begining of ur cycle, like right after your period- cause the chance of getting pregnant is a little smaller. but the fact remains that if there is any precum or cum inside you you have a chance of getting knocked up.

[Marine_Corps._08]

Don't risk getting pregnant if your not ready. And by the sound of it your NOT ready. I think Psyle is right, you should use multiple contraceptives. Definitely use a condom and the pill. Better safe than sorry!