Aids issue

[wakeboarder660]

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[full3ffect]

thats a toughie dude and im sorry you were put into this situation. but if you love her to death and use condoms correctly then i dont see why you shouldnt go for it. in my sexual experience ive had a condom break on me just once and that was because she wasnt properly lubricated. in the end the choice is yours.

[demonbuttercup]

Yea you also have to consider her viral loads and when they are there lowest... its less likely to be passed on.
Also, its less likely to pass it from woman to man.. then man to woman.
I would just consider all the options.. maybe even sit down w/ her and an HIV/AIDS advocate or even her DR thats treating her and get "real" answers.. not just ones you find on the internet

It is a tough decision to make, that is your life you are talking about... and is that worth risking for someone else?

[Browser]

Originally Posted by demonbuttercup

Yea you also have to consider her viral loads and when they are there lowest... its less likely to be passed on.
Also, its less likely to pass it from woman to man.. then man to woman.
I would just consider all the options.. maybe even sit down w/ her and an HIV/AIDS advocate or even her DR thats treating her and get "real" answers.. not just ones you find on the internet

It is a tough decision to make, that is your life you are talking about... and is that worth risking for someone else?

She's right.

Good luck.

[Mandelbaum]

Originally Posted by wakeboarder660

my gf of 8 months wants to have sex and i love her to death, but unfortuatnely she has aids, ive been looking at info a lot on how safe it is if you use a condom, they say its pretty safe if you use them correctly and consistently, any information on how safe it is or isnt would be appreciated, or any advice would be helpful

Wow, that is a very hard decision. Well try looking at it this way, would you be willing to give up your life for her?

[moose_hd]

There are LOTS of websites out there with info for situations like yours. Do some googling as there's a wealth of information available. For starters, here is an excellent article.

[Zlive]

im not trying sound harsh but is risking your life for a woman worth it?

[sweetiez]

If that was me. i def would not have sex with that person. you are putting your own health in danger. and your future. you wont really be able to even have kids later on in life. are you sure you want to take such a high risk like this? personally i would not.

[sweetiez]

and to add just only being with them 8 months?? you have a whole life ahead of you. how old are you? its ur life but good luck =\