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Old 07-30-2006, 05:25 PM
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Condom ripped! --- advice

I was having sex with my girlfriend after warped tour with an ultra thin trojan condom that they gave out for free (Baaad idea - probably have been out in the sun in bags all year!) And well, it ripped. For the first time in my life. To add to that, I didn't realize so until after I ejaculated. In terms of pregnancy chances etc, I would like an honest assesment based on these conditions:

1 - I was penetrating deep and havent orgasmed in about two days, probably a considerable amount of semen.

Now the mitigating factors:

2 - she didn't have an orgasm
3 - she was on her period
4 - i smoke a substantial amout of pot every day, including a LOT earlier in the day - the boogeyman in high school told me that it's gonna decrease my sperm count.
5 - this is totally based on my hypothesizing - feel free to slap me - i remember learning that sperm is only produced every six weeks or somethign. well, sure i haven't orgasmed in about two days prior, however before that, I would have sex and masturbate a lot, probably averaging about two ejaculations per day in the previous two weeks. how much fresh living sperm could there be in my seminal fluid???

Now the specific questions:
ECP stuff - does it require a script or can i get it at a planned parenthood somewhere?

Can anything else be done to at all mitigate the chances of pregnancy?

What are these chances?


Afterword:
Fortunately, my girlfriend has extra money for emergencies like this, she is 19, an abortion could be feasible and she is not afraid/hesitant about it. I've done google searches on this embarassingly common topic and apologize for seeming trollish and disrespectful for only using this forum without contributing. I would also like to point out that the state of sexual education in this country is pretty terrible. For instance, I read on planned parenthood that about 8/100 single ejaculation attempts result in pregnency during the second or third week of menstrual cycle (e.g. the peak time). Yet all direct FAQ-style answers on sex education material with regard to "risk of pregnancy" issues ALWAYS skirt around straight probabilities and err HEAVILY on the side of "there's always a chance", probably to discourage pull-out birth control, however such ends don't justify not providing more in-depth information.

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Old 07-30-2006, 06:54 PM
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Your body is making sperm every second of the day.

It is possible for pregnancy to happen from sex during her period.

As to the real medical advice, your gf should go see her doctor ASAP to talk about emergency contraception. The details of how to get it vary depending on the laws in your area.
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Here's a site that contains a lot of good information about EC (emergency contraception). I know that in the US, the states of Alaska, California, Hawaii, Maine, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New Mexico, and Washington have passed laws in March of 2006 allowing EC to be sold over-the-counter in pharmacies. That being said, I've never had any reason to buy them and therefore do not know anything about availability in the other 42 states. Similarly, I do not know of any laws regarding the distribution of EC in countries besides the US. Try calling a local pharmacy to see if they carry and can distribute EC without a prescription. Again, talking to a doctor is never a bad idea.

Good luck.
Same deal here as the original context.
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Old 07-31-2006, 08:11 AM
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You have said three things, only, that matter:

Condom ripped
You ejaculated
She was having her period

The good news is that during her period is the least likely time for her to become pregnant. If her periods are erratic, there is a higher risk; if perfectly regular, a lower risk.

The rest of your facts are irrelevant. I am glad that you recognize that condoms sitting in the hot sun, even wrapped, do degenerate. The other thing to learn is why we suggest spermicide in the vagina when using caondoms.

Look deep into Chick Chat and you will find the numbers on pregnancies.
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