Pre Cirvical cancer

[latintuch112]

OK first I have checked out this site a few years ago and I jsut got back into it and saw that there was a forum on, sooo...i'm kind of new to the forum. Anyways I need some advice, I getting desprate, my girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years next week 5/15, at first it was all cookies and cream twice a day for 2 weeks strait, if u kno what i mean, ( bad realationship b4 her...no sex or any sexual activity what so ever but a story for another day). Now Jan. of lastyear (`05) my girl had a leap i think they call it, where she had pre cancerus cells on her cirvix, and they durned them off at a Planned Parenthood. The Dr. told her no sex for a month or untill her follow up checkup. We didn't for that whole time, after having it all time. Well the Dr told her it was ok to again we did exept she was really really tender where it hurt her. We had thought it would pass because of the surgery being so soon she needed time to heal more. Well a year and a half later it still hurts her. This is actually putting a huge strain on us now. It's to the point where she is questioning the love she has for me. We haven't had sex since dec. 05 some time before xmas. We attemted two nights ago and still the same thing it hurts her to have sex. We have tryed all type of lubes and nothing helps with or without rubbers nothing, still the same thing. What could it be? She has even lost her sexual drive completly, we have 0.9% intamicy all went down hill from the point she got that surgery done. Of course i don't want her to have cancer but thats the only time i can pinpoint it down to that everything started.

Please any help would mean so much to me. I'm desprate to get our relationship back on trac the way it should be. The way her being 22 and myself being 25 what a relationship of us being young should be.

[Brandye]

For God's sake! Doctors are available to deal with stuff like this. The longer you wait, the worse the potential outcome. She should have given it a month at most; get to a gyn NOW.

[latintuch112]

I try to get her to go but she always has some sort of excuse and when i bring it up she get really bent out of shape.

[Brandye]

Give her a choice: See the doctor or find another boyfriend. You could be dealing with a very serious issue.

[latintuch112]

Well I spoke to her lastnight and she told me that there's nothing wrong with her...I highly dought that (Otherwise she wouldn't have pain when we tryed to have sex). Her finals are next week once she is done with them one way or another i'm dragging her to the Dr., our only problem is that hers is about a 2 1/2 hour drive away......but i'm going to keep at it though, I won't give up on her