Question on control

[goon]

Yeah um occasionally i can have sort of a "mini shot" or leak before i reach orgasm.
Is there anyway to build up control? Its not really endurance but like it'd just be nice to not confuse my girlfriend lol.


PeAcE

[Maribelle]

Hm, well, I think it's called pre-cum & my boyfriend is almost 40 (I'm in my twenties) ... he wipes it off during foreplay (I think it's sexy when he does that) & then he puts a condom on for sex ... during sex, he sometimes stops & I can feel him pulsing like he wants to cum, but he just pauses for a second (I find this really exciting/curious/erotic) then we go at it again ... sometimes he's done this almost 1/2 dozen times to last a couple hours & he says that when he does finally cum he's extremely sensitive afterwards

[batman527]

Originally Posted by Maribelle

Hm, well, I think it's called pre-cum & my boyfriend is almost 40 (I'm in my twenties) ... he wipes it off during foreplay (I think it's sexy when he does that) & then he puts a condom on for sex

This may be a turn on, but it kind of eliminates one of the reasons to use a condom. The pre-cum may not be as sperm laden as the real thing, but it IS possible that sperm are present anyway. This is how people get pregnant even if the guy "pulls out". Now that I think of it, it pretty much ruins the entire purpose of using a condom, at least for you, because he's exposing you to his bodily fluid, which can carry viruses, bacteria, etc. He'll still be protected from your bodily fluid, but you won't be protected from his. Just a thought.

To answer the question, try searching the forums for the "squeeze" method, this topic has actually been covered in detail before. Cheers.

[Maribelle]

Of course ... my boyfriend is an OBGYN - we're well aware of that Also, because he's an OBGYN he tested both of us for all STD's when we got together Not to mention that when the precum doesn't touch my skin (& even if it did it'd be knee) there's .000something risk

[Maribelle]

I wasn't considering that the main topic/issue here, though - I was simply giving the only example I know of regarding men controlling their orgasm & also just noticed goon made no mention of condum use at all.... goon, do you use condoms

[goon]

Of course i do lol
Yeah and also where do i find info on the squeeze method?

[batman527]

sorry, I guess I'm just really confused with your situation Maribelle.

And goon, the Search funcion is your homeboy.

Squeeze Technique

[Maribelle]

I'm sure I contributed to some of the confusion in that I only just realized I'd clicked the STD's board before - in my defense I was up past 3AM that night procrastinating on my college assignments My reply would have been a little different had I been aware which board I'd clicked myself into

Not sure what else is confusing about my situation, though - he's a Dr. specializing in this issue so we know how to take care of ourselves