chances of pregnancy?

[chelybell7]

i have this friend, she's a virgin, but she's given oral and manual sex and recieved both, also. On valentines day, she gave her boyfriend a handjob, he cleaned himself up, wiped off his hands & then fingered her almost an hour later.

.. and she started the birth control pill 2 days before that.

is there a possibilty she could be pregnant? i'm concerned for her cuz she's scared. any advice that people would be willing to have me give her would be nice.. and how should i help her if she IS pregnant?

also, does anyone know any websites that maybe give a situation and the possibilty of pregnancy right there?

[Brandye]

The chances are very low - if your description is accurate. Any time semen ends up near the vaginal entrance, there is a chance.

If she is 24 yo, mind your own business. If she is 14, the answer is different. You are both clearly way ahead of the issue and she is in for a long month of wondering.

[moose_hd]

What's the "boundary for safety" in activities like this?

One time I ejaculated all over my girlfriend's breasts while she was lying flat on her back, and then wiped her up with damp paper towels. After that I thoroughly washed my hands with soap and water two separate times and proceded to give her a hand job. The overall time from when I ejaculated to when I fingered her was probably within 10 minutes.

That "session" taught me to attend to her first so that I wouldn't risk fingering her after I ejaculated and potentially gotten some on my hands.

She was on the pill, but if she wasn't, what are the chances that I could have gotten her pregnant? What's the minimum amount of cleanup necessary to ensure there's no semen on your hands?

[Brandye]

If semen gets near her vaginal entrance, there is a possibility. There is no magical line etched on her belly.

[BigKahuna]

Unless of course she stands up right away and hops around one leg for at least 15 minutes...

(joking)

[moose_hd]

Yeah I was worried more about the ability of semen to withstand a handwashing as opposed to anything trickling down her chest. (I was talking about a "hygiene boundary" as opposed to a physical boundary on a woman's stomach.) But I get the impression that a regular handwashing is all that's necessary since Brandye didn't even mention anything about it.

Thanks