girfiend has had her period 3 weeks out of 4....

[dustinw]

thanks guys

[demonbuttercup]

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/birt..._directed.html

try this link... if it didn't work its the sticky under the Birth control section called...Caution, take only as directed.

I would not doubt any of this is happening. the way your g/f is taking her pills, there is no wonder her body is screwed up. if she is missing them all the time, then she shouldn't even bother to take them, b/c its doubtful they are giving her any pregnancy protection... just making her hormones all screwy and might even be making her MORE suceptible to pregnancy.

Now, i might could see this from a 14-15 yr old, but your g/f is 24. she should be more responsible than this
If she's not going to take it right, she shouldn't take them at all. BC pills aren't just something you take willy nilly, THEY ARE PRESCRIPTION MEDS!!!
you wouldn't treat your heart med in the same fashion?!?!

[LittleFury]

I'd get checked for STD's just in case. And from now on, always use condoms with her

[Rawbob]

The BCP will directly impact her menstral cycle..she should see her Gyno !

[dustinw]

Little update.
Said it was gone on Thurs, but today it came back again....what the heck. No idea why she won't go to a doctor or seems concerned.....hence i thought it may be something else.

[Lass]

Yeah, she needs some structure in her life man. If she's going on and off them, I wouldn't have sex with her. That's an easy way to get pregnant.

Going on and off with do that though (even missing a pill will make you spot some throughout the month).

...I don't mean to sound mean or rude, but I'm looking at this from all angels: do you think she may not want to have sex and she's only saying her periods coming all these times?

[Lonewolf*]

Try to talk her into going to see a doctor. If shes having that many problems with it she should be seeing one soon.

The other thing that I'm wondering, and I dont want to put doubt into your mind, but if she is lying to you, could she be with someone else?

[dustinw]

I've had thoughts she may be sleeping with someone else. She denies, and insists she's not.
She said she saw a doctor on Friday. Doctor didn't take her blood pressure or anything. Just said she needs to take more iron...then come back if it keeps happening.

Weird....if its true.

12 days of the "2nd" period now....Saturday night she had really bad cramps.

No idea why she doesn't make a big deal of it.

[demonbuttercup]

She might not have been completely honest w/ her DR. She might not wanted to have heard a lecture about "taking your pill regularly and on time"
who knows.
I'll just say, everyone shouldn't just jump to the she's cheating. Yes, she might not really want to have sex w/ you but that doesn't always mean there is someone else.
If she is taking her pills like you say she is, then it is completely possible that her periods are as erratic as you described.
When I first started my pills, I was on them for like a week and then I started having a "light" period. That continued for the rest of the month until I had my period. It wasn't until after that, that I started to be on more of a schedule. But like I said before, I DO take mine at the right times and everyday.

[Lonewolf*]

Just to clarify, I wasnt saying she was I was just saying a possibility. But its good to hear thats not the case.

I never had any problems when I started the pill. I've missed it twice I think, one close to when I first started and then one like a week ago. But still no problems.