Please Help.

[xnjselfdestructx]

Me and my girlfriend had dry sex as in i never entered her. I never cummed near her or anything we just rubbed, the only thing im worried about is precum. Whats the probability of her getting pregnent. Im really scared. Im not eating I cant sleep. Help.

[dancingdoc2]

> I never cummed near her or anything we just rubbed,

I believe that there are two truths. The first is pragmatic; the second is practical and realistic.

When answering this question I usually offer the second because it is safe and takes care of a lot of whoops and what ifs that someone on my side of the monitor has no control over. My standard answer is "yes" precum contains sperm; therefore, a couple should be careful what goes where.

In point of fact, precum does not in and of itself contain any sperm unless and until it presents following a previous ejaculation that was not followed by urination. In other words, if a person ejaculates and does not urinate immediately after, then the subsequent appearance of precum from continued stimulation will pick up trace sperm left behind. So there you have it; which truth do you want to abide by and practice? I believe the answer is the same as for handling a firearm. Treat each and every one as if it is a loaded gun--the second truth.

> Whats the probability of her getting pregnent. Im really scared. Im not eating I cant sleep.

> I never cummed near her or anything we just rubbed, the only thing im worried about is precum.

Sperm has to come into contact with the vagina one way or another.

[Brandye]

The reality is also that when in aroused state, there are millions sperm in the male tract. If you get close, you need to be wearing a condom.

[STKMIKECAMPO2]

leaked from my other thread... i.e. i'm still a bit worried by
>If you get close, you need to be wearing a condom.>
How close are we takling about? vaginal lips count?

[Lass]

I'd say yes.

[Brandye]

Quit trying to split hairs. I had a rule with one teen "friend:" if it was out of his pants, it had a condom on it.

[Lonewolf*]

I know this really has no importance for this, but that went into my dream last night! I was in the hot tub with my boyfriend and neither of us were wearing clothes, and he came over to me and I could feel him and suddenly in my mind I was like precum contains sperm! Oh god! So I jumped out of the hot tub naked and took a towel and like rubbed so hard to get anything away. lol and then he got out and his friend walked in and yes this no longer has anything to do with that.

But at least I know I'm getting smarter!