am i too tight?

[Jerosef]

I recently just started dating this older guy. I say older because I have only had sex with one other person, my boyfriend for the past year. They both have pretty good sized penis', but my new boyfriends penis is a lot girthier(i haven't measured, but it's a significant difference for me).

Anyways when we first started having sex we did it at least 2 to 3 times a day, on weekends we've maxed at 13 times in a 30 hour period. we say we aren't going to have intercourse when I am on my period but we can't resist each other and I've been starting to notice very big changes. His penis used to slide in easily as long as I was wet and there was never any painful pressure, but now no matter how wet I am I can't just let it slide in anymore. It takes a while and its still painful like he's jabbing me. I think it's because we had too much sex in the beginning and now my vaginal walls are swollen????

also more recently even though we've slowed down to everyother day or just once a day because the pain still won't go away I've been getting a sharp pain around my vaginal entrance like I'm being cut or maybe torn. is it because I am too tight? he always tells me during sex how tight i feel but I was definitely no virgin when I met him. PLEASE HELP...WE USED TO HAVE GREAT SEX AND NOW WE CAN'T EVEN GET IT IN.

[ORANGE]

show down. give yourself time to heal. a day or two and back to being rabit should be fine..have fun

[ORANGE]

it is funny people always ask what they already know....

[Brandye]

Yes, you are most likely swollen. Take a week or so off (there are alternatives that do not create friction) and then start off slowly.

If you are using latex condoms, switch, after your break, to polyurethane condoms.