Guy Is Too Big For Most Condoms!

[Doodlebug]

Hey everyone. I'm with a guy who has trouble fitting into just about any condoms. He is very large and won't even fit into the extra large condoms as they aren't wide enough. He says they are long enough but they aren't wide enough. So yeah, condoms are pretty much a non-option. What other non-hormonal birth control options are there? I've heard of the female condom but would that be a problem if your man is huge? Also, how effective is spermicide?

[Brandye]

There is an entire thread on Chick Chat about choosing birth control and the effectiveness of the various methods. All your questions have been anticipated.

The female condom is the natural choice for you - with vaginal jelly in you and in the condom. These things take some getting used to. The man moves inside the condom and many report that it feels more natural than wearing a traditional condom.

[Doodlebug]

Are there any alternatives to the female condom? It just doesn't sound very comfortable to me. I might have time to go on the pill or something before he comes and visits but I don't know. Where is this thread on Chick Chat?

[Brandye]

On the bottom of the sexinfo101.com page is Brandye's Chick Chat. You ask about the female condom, I told you. Any guy that will not fit in those, will not fit into any woman anywhere.

It sounds like you want someone to tell you what to do. You have to make your own decisions and remember if you start on any hormonal system (which you said you did not want) you should go a complete menstrual cycle with alternative protection.

[Doodlebug]

Originally Posted by Brandye

On the bottom of the sexinfo101.com page is Brandye's Chick Chat. You ask about the female condom, I told you. Any guy that will not fit in those, will not fit into any woman anywhere.

It sounds like you want someone to tell you what to do. You have to make your own decisions and remember if you start on any hormonal system (which you said you did not want) you should go a complete menstrual cycle with alternative protection.

No actually I don't want someone to tell me what to do. I just want some advice.