Pregnancy concerns

[Weezil]

Ok, here is the deal...My girlfriend and I last saturday were fooling around, and I had just got done going down on her. When she climbed on top of me and ripped open my pants. Now I was worked up and hard, and I'm assuming there was some pre-cum involved. But we were basically millimeters from each other, and if I decided to thrust up it would've been over and done with. But I didn't and we just kinda stayed and made out. My boxers never ever coming off, #### my jeans didn't even come off. But last night she told me that she was worried about being pregnant. She said she felt some wet around there. But she couldn't be more specific. And frankly we are both freaking out about this. We were talking today and she told me about a pregnancy test at a local hospital and if some pill that will give you if its 'positive'. I don't know much about that, cause I thought the morning after pill only worked for 72 hours, and this almost sounds like some sort of abortion. Any help or support you guys and gals could offer would be great...I don't need another sleepless night of worrying about this. Thanks alot!

[Brandye]

If you do not want anymore sleepless nights, you and your girlfriend go to the pharmacy (drugstore, chemist, apotheke, whatever it is called in your country) together. You buy a box of condoms and she buy a tube of vaginal jelly with applicator. Then go home and make an agreement that anytime your penis is with ten centimeters of her, there will be a condom on it and jelly in her.

That said, the chance of her being pregnant is quite low but is definitely there. I do not know what "wet" means, my pudenda is always a bit damp. It is not a symptom of pregnancy. The moring after pill is recommded within 72 hours and its effectiveness goes way down while the chance of birth defect would go up. Yes, she is talking about a form of abortion. The egg, if fertilized, would have had enough time to implant in the uterine wall.