We've made up our minds.

[Felixx]

Ok so you remember my last freakout post....my last post here.

I spoke with my boyfriend...(1 year in Dec!) and he was the first one to say..."No more."...We aren't going to have sex anymore until we are out of high school. *We both agreed that it is too much of a risk to take when we are this age. *Plus, if I were to become pregnant, it would be hard to decide on keeping/adopting/aborting the child (We are against abortion in some aspects). *I told my mom that I had become active...Although she didn't yell/scream/try to kill me with the closest object in hands reach...she used the line, "I'm' not angry, I'm just dissapointed." *Like a knife to the heart there. *She was happy to know that I wasn't pressured and that we ALWAYS had sex with protection.

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]You are probably ok, but if this stresses you out so much, you need to ask yourself whether or not sex is worth it at this point in life.

I wanted to say thank you for helping me...I'm not pregnant btw...And VERY happy about that!
Thanks again Brandyne !*huggers*!

[Brandye]

You and your b/f have made a very rational decision. You have also in discussing this with mother. I am happy to help and wish there were more happy outcomes to issues that you originally raised. Hugs back