I may just be freaking out...

[Felixx]

Ok, I'm most likely going to get detailed with this...fair warning.
My last period ended on October 24...The last time I was sexually active was on November 4th, 11-12 days since I had my period...A normal female cycle would be every 28 days her period would start...Right? *Ok, when I had sex we used a condom, my boyfriend (even with the condom) pulls out before he ejaculates. *What I'm trying to get at is, I haven't started my period yet, It's been 28 days tonight...I know i still have time...I'm PMSing, pasta cravings, my face is breaking out, umm, kinda bitchy. *I know that having sex, even with a condom, there is still a really really slim chance that I can become pregnant. *September to October, i didn't have my period for about 33 days...and before that (August to september) it was 38 days. Am I weird or somthing, Before I lost my virginity I was regular...every 27 days since I stated when i was 11, i'm 16 going on 17 now... I really need some reassurance on this...Any help. *Is there a risk that I can be pregnant? *I can't tell my mom, she would literally kill me, and i'm not joking...so i would have a really hard time getting tested...Can stess majorly affect my period as well?..hehe school!

(ps: i write everything down on a calaender when it comes to this)

[Brandye]

The biggest stress in your life is sweating out your periods. Yes, that can affect the regularity, or lack of it, that you have experienced lately. You did have sex in what would be considered, by the calendar, to be an unsafe time. Women depending upon condoms exclusively get pregnant at the rate of about 15 of 100 per year. Add spermicide in your vagina and this will be cut drastically.

Any time a penis has been in a vagina there is a possibility of pregnancy. Condoms reduce the chance pretty well; withdrawwal reduces the chances a bit further. Teen women are notoriously irregular and when your period is irregular, so is ovulation. That increases risks of pregnancy.

I happen to be 28 days and regular as can be. You seem to have a longer cycle and it is a bot erratic. You are probably ok, but if this stresses you out so much, you need to ask yourself whether or not sex is worth it at this point in life. At the very least, use condoms plus vaginal jelly and reduce your risks as far as possible.

[Felixx]

Thanks!