First Response Pregnancy Tests and a huge Fear

[YoungLover03]

Hey all,

Currently both my girlfriend and I are very scared - she might be pregnant. The people that we can talk to are limited. We are in university and college and a baby is something neither of us can handle right now.

Let me explain the whole situation. About a month ago my girlfriend and I were messing around on different days. These days occured during the first week after she finished her period. When I say fooling around I mean a mix between non-intercourse play and one instance of intercourse with a condom on and with no ejaculation during the intercourse (she is not on the pill). Basically I finger her and do oral on her and she does a hand job and oral on me. First question: can a female get pregnant if sperm comes in contact with her vagina (inside and out) when it is on a hand (meaning a penis doesn't ejaculate into a vagina)?

Now for the second instance of this week. We had intercourse but during it I lost my erection and the condom went baggy. so we stopped (I didnt ejaculate). There wasn't any visible damage done to the condom, but if the condom went "baggy", is there a chance any precum could have entered her vagina by leaking out of the condom from the rim?

Right now my girlfriend is 2 days late. She took a First Response Pregnancy Test her first day late and the result was negative. But this is where things get complicated: she is very irregular and can miss her period for months at a time. How effective are these pregnancy tests?

I would appreciate any feed back on this. Both me and her are terrified.

[YoungLover03]

Nevermind guys and gals..she had her period! thank god! lol