Pleasing a man with ED

[seasea25]

I am 26 and I have been seeing an older man for 6 months and he just told me he suffers from ED.Is this common in middle aged men? He is very healthy and seems to like me alot but he keeps pushing me away.It is driving me crazy. He can can get an erection but it is weak. He does alot to please me sexually but I wish I could do somthing for him.Is there any type of stimulation or technique I could do? I do not know much about ED, does it cause pain like "blue balls"?

[Brandye]

As men get older, erectile dysfunction becomes more common. Normal? Depends. If he is 40, not normal; 60, possibly.

There are several drugs on the market now that overcome this situation. The ideal would be that he see a urologist and get on one of these. Clearly you would be receptive to that. Men with erectile dysfunction can still enjoy being played with, sucked on and, hopefully, some insertion into a vagina. They tend to need more stimulation to reach orgasm. Hands and mouths provide this. Orgasm and ejaculation are entirely possible whether or not he gets it up.

Most of us have done enough handjobs and blowjobs in our lives that we do not mind. Over time, though, would you not be happier to take him in you?

Try to get him onto Cialus, Viagra or whatever.