sperm resilience?

[carlthescorp]

Everytime before my girlfriend and I have sex, she always gives me a blowjob because it makes me harder and the sex is better. I was wondering though, because she is using her hands, and I'm using mine to put on the condom if some sperm could get on the outside of the condom from this. She also likes me to play with her clitoris as we have sex and again the possible sperm on my hand worries me lately. She's on the pill and we use condoms, but I figured maybe we should also look in to spermicidal jelly, but I wouldn't really know how to use it. I don't pull out early, but I do remove myself after I ejaculate.

[tacosandbattons]

If your feeling like you should... Then do it .. Its not a matter of being more protected really at this point .. This will just make you feel alot better .... and you wont worry as much...
as to how to use it I DONT KNOW but it will have directions ... lol I HOPE

[Brandye]

If she is on the pill, religiously, and you use condoms, there is no real worry. About the only safer approach is to avoid sex entirely.

[carlthescorp]

Thanks for some piece of mind, very valuable when it comes to something like this. I'm also a very passionate person and my gf lives about an hr away while I'm in college. I'm constantly surrounded by beautiful and fun girls at school and I recently purchased a fleshtoy to hopefully curb any urges I might have to cheat.