I want my girlfriend back!!!

[nexus8rt]

Anybody have this problem?? Ok, so this started around november/december of last year. Up until then we were having sex without a problem. We both would initiate it and act on it, having sex at least once a day. But we moved in together around that time, got a dog, and i started a new job. After that we started to have sex less and less, and i began to be the only one to initiate the sex. I tried being romatic with her to get her in the mood but nothing seems to work. Until recently she tool some sexual enhancing pills that i bought from a company that i did a great deal of research over and that did nothing to help. Up until now we havn't had sex for about 3 to 4 months and i am going crazy. We have had sex maybe once or twice but pretty much nothing. She even told me to stop trying, and that it seems to be getting to her. So i did and now nothing. Just yesterday she told me the reason was because she wasn't happy with herself, physically she ment. Is this common?? Do you think she is seeing someone else eventhough she denies it??? Help me get my girlfriend back!!! Please!!!

[Konman72]

My girlfriend did this too. She started gaining some weight or something and didn't think she looked good anymore so she basically just stopped having any sexual interest. She has lost some weight now and has started to gain back her self-confidence and now things should get better (we are seperated due to summer break, physically seperated that is). Basically talk to your gf and tell her how big an issue this is, and find out what is making her lose her interest and help fix the problem.

[Brandye]

You do not mention your ages. This is a common reaction among young women who are questioning whether or not sex is worth the risk they are taking. I suspect you are being sent a message. Try to discuss it with her but be prepared to go your separate ways. Do not feel guilty; you have likely done nothing.

[nexus8rt]

We are both 23. It doesn't seem like this should be a problem at our ages. i have tried talking to her and she sympathysies saying that if she could do something about it she would. I have even recommended her going to a doctor about it but she is sensitive about this subject and barely told me.

[ShadowLynnParker]

I am a writer but will not promote in this forum. My fans know who I am. Now, I will however have you get this book "Growing Up Goomba" The author Bob D Caterino is brilliant. If you give her the book she will gain self esteem and gain sexual confidence. I know it is humor but it has been known to help. The other way I can help is just being blunt. I will let you into the world of female secrets here. First compliments and massages without her asking for them will make her feel sexy. Buy her a small gift, nothing too extreme and nothing sexual. This will make her think you need her to get sexier. You must think she is sexy already. Remember the old addage, MORE TO LOVE. Do something for her one night. Please her all night and get nothing in return. It should be all about her. This should show a turn around in about a week. You must be focused on her as if she is the only women in the world. If she feels undesireable or loved then she feels empty. Now for a shameless plug but it is free. Read me or anyone erotic together. Take turns reading to each other. You may find that something moves. lol try it and see.