HELP!

[vdubb1994]

is it possible for a 18 to have some form of ED, because i can not get an erection hard enough for penetration. i've had sex 4 times, but 3 of them times i used viagra because the 5 times before we tried and i couldnt get an erection hard enough. and the other time just happend and it was very short like four minutes and then i cummed. but the other 3 times i stole the viagra's. we tried again today after school and i got an erection it just wouldnt go in like its not hard enough or something but it is very frustration and hard because i am ready to have sex. i was wondering if there was any other things that would play a role in this problem like not eating well, i eat twice a day for the most part other times its once. i heard if u have a bad heart or something that could cause it to but i went and did one of them heart rate test and my heart beat per minute was like 50 and it said it was below average.. but again this weekend i got another viagra so im just going to take that, but the only bad thing bout that is i get a head ache and like my heart beats really fast. but i dont know what to do. im not nervous, as far as i know, when im by myself i can get an erection in like a minute, and it feels hard enough then, but when she is around and we are fooling around it goes hard just not hard enough. is there anything i can do besides viagras like, lubes or something i dont know, it just makes me so depressed an down suicide thoughts come into my head.. not that i would ever do that they just pop in my head. but please HELP! and respond ASAP. THANKS!

[demonbuttercup]

I don't think you allowed yourself enough time to get used to sex. A lot of guys have issues there first time... or first few times for that matter. You jumped from having one bad experience to using viagra the next 3 times. Possibly you are just using it as a crutch and "think" you will be soft...therefore you are.
It's totally mental since you said that you can get a hard erection when you are alone. I think it just takes getting some used to being comfortable w/ your partner.
I know you have used it before but maybe should check out JRacer's post in this thread
kind of makes you take a second look at what you are doing. I would go a few times w/out any drugs and see what happens. Of course you will be so psyched out b/c you aren't on Viagra that you KNOW it will not be hard.. so then it won't.
I dunno, I just think you should have kept trying before resorting to RX drugs, now you are in a vicious cycle.
Good luck!

P.S. You don't have to keep posting it. You have had some responses in Your other thread of same topic.