concerned... help!

[girleyes]

hi,
i am new here, but i can't really talk to any of my friends about this and i needed some advice so why not turn to the general public, right? ok... i will get to the point. *my boyfriend and i have never had sex, but we do have a lot of oral sex. up to about a week ago i had no problem making him come, and he would constantly tell me how great i was. *the last few times i have gone down on him though, it has gone on for probably close to half an hour and he just eventually stops me, cause he hasn't come. *as much as i appreciate him not making me continue (not like i could go for that much longer...) i would really like to get him off like i used to. *i don't know what is going on, and all he says is "i don't know what is wrong with me" i always tell him "nothing" becuse i am sure that it is the truth, but maybe it is something i am doing now!! ...he has no problem getting it up, and it is usually still hard when we "give up". *anyone have any suggestions or words of wisdom for me? i love him to death and this won't come between us (sorry for the pun) but i am starting to feel inadequate!

[demonbuttercup]

Well you shouldn't feel any less adequate especially since you used to could but now he doesn't.
There could be several things, maybe he's a new medication or something.
Could be just stress. Stress does a lot of things to the body that we aren't even aware of.
He could be thinking he's "in the moment" but in reality his mind is elsewhere on school, work, a great number of things.
Doesn't mean there is anything wrong w/ him either... we all go thru phases of stress and life where sex isn't always top in our mind. Nothing bad about you or him.