Morning After Q

[LCBlackDep139]

Me and my gf want to start having sex, this isnt my first time, but it is her, i plan on using a condom and spermiside probably a gel, but she wants to have a morning after pill there just in case, and i dont blame her.

Now normally i would just go to the clinic for this, but one incy problem, her mom works there... what im asking is there anywhere else i can go to get a morning after, without either of our parents knowing...

[LittleFury]

I don't think that morning after pill is a best way to go. I eman, with a right use of condom and spermice you should be fine. If she's that worried, she can get on the pill or get a diaphragm or path or anything like that. I would recommend those things over morning after pill. Thats just me though. I would wait to see Brandye's reply to this though. She would know better then me.

[LCBlackDep139]

The pill is a problem cuz shes tryed 6 different types of birth control, and with all the brands she gets really pissy, and id rather not use a diaphram, or female condom, we just want the EC there "just in case", cuz taking a pill is a hell of alot easyer than finding an freinds parent to take her to get an abortion; im not looking for a speech on morals. We have both excepted that in the .2% chance that somthing goes wrong we both want to abort the pregnacy, im sorry but at the age of 16-17 an pregnacy would whipe out our future, and its not like were using it as a form of BC, its there incase of an accident, but i think a morning after pill is much more humane than the doctor going in and smashing up a 2 month old fetus...

[demonbuttercup]

maybe she could try the shot, patch, or implant.
my only concern is i don't think its safe for her to be taking a morning after pill EVERY time you have sex.
or are you just having it there just in case the condom breaks or something?
otherwise, condoms and spermicide are your best best.

[LCBlackDep139]

no no no, just incase the condom gives way, which is somthing im not too concerned about, but she is. the problem with the patch, implant, shot, ide... they all require px, and were trying to avoid her parents finding out, cuz i dont feel like being castrated and sacraficed, lol...

[demonbuttercup]

yeah but more than likely the same places that would have the morning after pill like planned parenthood or health clinic would provide her w/ BC.
apparently her parents know and she's been on it before b/c you said she gets all pissy on the 6 brands she's already tried.

you could go to a clinic the next town over or something.
if her mom works at a clinic she should be opened minded and glad her daughter wants to be safe. she probably sees young pregnant girls all the time.

[Brandye]

The morning after pill is emergency contraception. Women who have taken it are not anxious to do it again. Even using the normal pills as emergency contraception creates naudea and discomfort. If you are using normal precautions (vaginal jelly and condom) and still nervous, think about something else to do because sex is too high risk a proposition for you.