when is it suppose to feel good?

[Leighmarie1124]

me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and we have had sex at least 7 or 8 times.. but i never feel the urge to rub my clit or ever think of having an orgasm and after a while my wetness goes away is there something wrong with me?

[demonbuttercup]

7 or 8 times really isn't enough to get the hang of it just yet.
but you should at least be enjoying it a little i guess.
do you masturbate at all?
why wouldn't you ever think about having an orgasm? are you focusing too much on him or is it just a lot of other stuff in your head at the time?

i have the problem w/ staying wet too. sometimes it will be from my b/f and i taking forever to peak. other times, i think its b/c all the damn fans in our room..lol. im dry in like 2 minutes.
also, could be meds, like some sinus meds made to dry out your sinuses...dry out other areas as well. i take sinus meds as well. just try a good lube.

[Brandye]

Honey,

Start with masturbation. Then you will have a better idea where you are going. And listen to demon.