Friends STD

[Tilston]

hey so. last wesnday i was with this girl and we was going at hell of alot stuff in the bedroom. it lasted about 3 hours overall and was quite rough. This girl i was with messaged me and she told me that her clit was really sore and that it hurt the next day (mentioned that it hurt wen she pissed aswell)

ermm...she told me a few days after that the pain had gone away, but when i went to give her oral she had alot of discharge and didnt think it was a good idea licking that! she has also experienced itching up until today. when i did get physical with her the slightest move hurt her so i didnt proceed.

okay so today i met with this girl again and almost all of the discharge had gone and it was safe to proceed. after her reaching her first orgasm she said that it started hurting her again where.... well... the hole is, and she felt unconftable because the itching was back for a while. she seamed quite upset that this was happening and that she cant have sex.

ive researched a few things on STD's but i thought that you guys would give me a better, personal opinion on this. i found out that Bacterial vaginosis can give these kind of systems but other symptons like smell is not present. (got the info from www.afraidtoask.com)

so to put it short. you think its serious or not its kinda gone away before but kinda not!? :S yeha im confused. if she leaves it long enough u think it will go away or should she see a doctor.

-Regards Tilston

sorry if u get confused with all the days etc

[LittleFury]

Then in doubt, see a doctoc...see a doctor even if you know what it is. Thats your best option.

[Rawbob]

It sounds like if could be either a urniary tract infection or yeast infection. If you KNOW for sure she's not having unprotected sex with anyone else, and YOU aren't having unprotected sex with anyone and you ARE using condoms when u have intercourse it's probably one of those two things. Either way she's going to need to see her OB/GYN to get it tested and get some antibiotics.

The female reproductive tract is an OVEN and can really cultivate a multitude of little buggers that can make her very uncomfortable.

ALso, if you're having 3 hour sex sessions it's not uncommon to irritate her eurethra and other parts of her vagina that can become irritated and even infected. Encourage her to see her Dr.

[Brandye]

1. She should see a doctor right away.
2. You should see a doctor.

Whether or not this is what you would call an STD, it will not go away by itself. Lingering yeast infections are sometimes caused by passing the yeast back and forth. It is likely that you will be using condoms for a while until both of you get whatever treatment is needed. But get it.

[Tilston]

i myself have never had unprotected sex. i know that she has had unprotect sex once. i made her promise that she would get a dotors opointment but if not ill do it for her.

yeah just a quick question then. Always wear a condom during sex, but how about oral, any change of me getting anythink by licking women out in general. i mean if it dont look or smell right i dont go near it.

[demonbuttercup]

no oral can be just as dangerous.
i mean a girl can have some STDs and just because it looks ok from the outside doesn't mean anything.

heres some stuff i found
"In gonorrhea, the discharge is often white. In chlamydia, the discharge is usually clear. Very often people infected with gonorrhea or chlamydia may not have any symptoms! Both gonorrhea and chlamydia are spread by coming in contact with the discharge."

"STDs that could be transmitted through oral sex are herpes, syphilis, hepatitis B, gonorrhea, and HPV."

heres a good article to read
Have You Talked to Your Dentist About Sex?
Among the more dangerous myths floating around these days is that oral sex is a disease-free alternative to intercourse. The fact is, not only can oral-genital contact lead to a sexually transmitted disease (STD) it can, depending on the disease, be harder to spot and more difficult to treat. Your dentist may recognize oral symptoms of an STD and instruct you to see a physician for diagnosis, according to a study published in the May/June 2002 issue of General Dentistry, the peer-reviewed journal of the Academy of General Dentistry, an organization of general dentists dedicated to continuing education.

According to the study's author, Larry N. Williams, DDS, MAGD, 60 percent of surveyed college students do not equate oral-genital contact with sex. And more than 55 percent of teen-agers admitted to engaging in oral sexual acts.

Ninety percent of those who contracted the oral component of an STD-such as gonorrhea-may be asymptomatic (meaning they do not show outward signs of being sick). The remaining 10 percent exhibit symptoms such as gum swelling and discharge, and some bleeding. These symptoms closely resemble those of another disease, necrotizing ulcerative gingivitis (NUG), also known as trench mouth or Vincent's disease, a painful bacterial infection and ulceration of the gums. NUG, unlike gonorrhea, however, has a foul odor.

Dr. Williams says these patients may also experience flu-like symptoms. He added that while it is possible for an oral STD to be asymptomatic in the mouth, there may well be a genital component that does show symptoms. Additionally, studies have shown that 25 percent of those with genital gonorrhea may have an oral component. Gonorrhea was pegged by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention as the second most common STD in 1997, with an estimated 600,000 cases reported every year. Patients with gonorrhea average about 24 years of age, often live in urban areas, and are more often black than white.

An oral STD is harder to treat. "Most STDs require a moist environment to survive," Dr. Williams explained. Treatment for an oral component to an STD usually includes an oral antibiotic, an intramuscular (IM) antibiotic and an oral antibiotic rinse. "The dentist should be proactive and advise the patient to seek medical care. If the dentist suspects the patient has an oral STD, then the patient probably has it elsewhere as well."

To reduce the chances of contracting an oral STD, Dr. Williams encourages individuals to practice safer sex by using a condom or a latex barrier."



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[Tilston]

hey this is the gurl that tilston was on about!
today we were intimate agAIn and at first it was fine with him using tongue and fingers but then when we tried to have sex there was alot of pain an we couldnt do it, now im really worried and dont know what to do! i would go to the doctors but im to shy to say anything cus i feel stupid! HELP!

[Tilston]

hey this is the gurl that tilston was on about!
today we were intimate agAIn and at first it was fine with him using tongue and fingers but then when we tried to have sex there was alot of pain an we couldnt do it, now im really worried and dont know what to do! i would go to the doctors but im to shy to say anything cus i feel stupid! HELP!

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Tilston @ May 20 2004,10:06)]i would go to the doctors but im to shy to say anything cus i feel stupid! HELP!

i know its hard.
i was very shy and VERY nervous the first time i went to the gyno.
the stupid thing is not to go.
it could be nothing, but if it is something its better to know either way instead of stressing and worrying about it.

all of this is part of taking the responsibility of choosing to have sex. if you aren't too shy to be w/ a guy then you should be smart and take care of your body. once you become sexually active you should go to a gyno. whether its to get on BC pills or just to have your yearly exam. it sucks, yeah totally, but it comes w/ the territory.

Brandye is a doctor so if she says you should, then you should.
like rawbob said it could just be a urinary tract infection which is nothing to be embarrassed about. we all get them.
whatever it is, it won't just go away. even if it seems like it did. doctors see people w/ STDs all the time, they won't think any less of you.

[fawlen]

hi! this is the gurl that you was talkin to on tilstons profile i decided to join up! an say thanx for all the help! i decided to go to the doctors and it turned out to be thrush?! the doctor gave me some cream for it an well it should be gone with in a few days! but yeah really all i wana say is thanx to you people who helped out an gave me all the advice etc for me to actually do summat about it an go to the doctors!

nat xxx