girlfriend and I worried about pregnancy

[tooleulogy]

This was our second time having sex, and after i finished i went to the bathroom and i noticed that the semen was around the shaft of my penis on the inside of the condom... I started to get worried and so did she that it may of leaked out the bottom. but there wasnt any signs of any coming out the bottom. Plus there is spermicide in the condom.

How can i reassure her thats shes fine? And she told me shes expecting her period soon.

She doesnt know about the spermicide... so that might help her.

my friend who has a child said we should be fine

[Rawbob]

Well...it depends on a few things. WHen you loose your erection, it's not uncommong for the semen to leak out the bottom of the condom, thats whymost guys pull out after orgasm to avoid the semen leaking into the vagina.

Bottom line...if u stay inside her till u go soft, there IS a chance that some semen did get into her. It's very slight, but do yourself a favor..and after you cum, pull out, remove the condom and do a quick wipe of your penis! REMEMBER, there's also always a bit of semen in your urethra that will leack out too...so no sticking your penis back in her after you have removed the condom!

[tooleulogy]

i still had an erection when i pulled out. and she had her period yesterday but she said it only lasted 2 hours