He comes too soon

[BabyDi]

My boyfriend and I are both really frustrated sexually. We have no problem talking about it together, but it's a little embarrassing to post here...but here goes...
Basically, he can't last any length of time when we have sex. When he's on top, it's literally like under 1 min. When I'm on top, it can be longer, but not much. I thought it was only recently that this was happening, but when we started talking about it...he admitted that this was always the case, but that he'd just try and hide the fact that he'd already cum...(yea i know...sucky that he would lie) Also, I'm also not the only girl with which this has been a problem.

Anyway...it's gotten to the point where he doesn't even want to have sex because he knows he'll come right away and feels like he's disapointing me. I try not to say it to his face, but its extremely frustrating for me too. While its certainly not all that matters, and while it's not a deal-breaker...I would be much happier sexually if this wasn't happening.

The problem now is...what to do. He's willing to do something about it...He even brought up taking something...
He doesn't have a regular doctor where we're living now...but is that the only option? Taking a pill??? It just seems so weird when we're this young (20, 21) I don't know...
ANY ADVICE???
Thanks,
Me

[Vesian]

This is kinda posted on the wrong forum (For problems like this, you should probably post on the "Pleasing your Man" or "Dating and Relationships&quot, but i'll answer your question. Since he is cumming too quickly, perhaps have you entertained the idea of giving him a blowjob maybe 1 hour or so before you have sex with him? He should be able to last a LONG time if you do that :-)

[moderatorII]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Vesian @ Dec. 11 2003,23:27)]This is kinda posted on the wrong forum (For problems like this, you should probably post on the "Pleasing your Man" or "Dating and Relationships&quot, but i'll answer your question.

It's ok ... BabyDi obviously sees this as a Sexual Disorder, so this is the correct forum.

[Brandye]

Not an uncommon problem There are sex therapists and some techniques that can help. Some thing to try is bring him off a time or two during foreplay. When I was younger, with younger boyfriends, I almost always did them at least once. This slowed them down and helped them last longer once "there."

go to Google and put in "Squeeze technique." The first and third that come up are helpful.