Gental Warts

[DJ Chris]

Hi, I’m new. *I found this site out of desperation of a problem I have, and through looking over past post, I found a lot of usefull info. *This is a truly helpful and amazing site and hopefully you can help me also.

Well here’s my story...


I'm 24 and so far have been a really good boy because I believe in the beauty and sanctity of sex, and that it's not to be shared with just anyone. *On the other hand I am a horny typical guy so I have had a dabble into sharing this act. *So far I have only slep with 2 women and with both of them I was always safe and everything was cool

I met a new girl a couple of months ago, and we started seeing each other, dating, and then finally having sex. *I fell head over heals for this girls and after a while we eventually once had sex without a condom (I know it's stupid, but a couple bottles of beringer does that to you). My experience was, for lack of better words, EXTREAMLY ORGASMIC, and defiantly the best feeling ever. *Shortly after that 1st time we found it hard to cum with a condom on because the feeling is so different, so we eventually gave in, and more and more we chose not to wear one. * Well now that her period came late we both got nervous, so she went to the doctor today to get checked out and to go on the pill. *Thankfully she’s not pregnant (I can't wait to have kids, but know there's no way I can have them now) but she was diagnosed with genital warts. *I decided to go to go tomorrow to get checked out, but still have a couple of questions.

Well now that she's going on the pill, and we share a monogamous relationship, can I still make love to her without a condom? *I read that you will have genital warts for the rest of your life so does this mean that they will just continue to flair up every once in a while?

Does anyone have any experiences with genital warts that they could share with me to ease my frantic thought of “OH MY GOD, I HAVE A STD !!!

Any advice about this or anything else to help me get through my situation is greatly appreciated

Thanks!

[Sweettuth]

You probably have genital warts, even when you use a condom, you can still get them, they are contacted from skin to skin contact. Yes you will always have the virus. I have them, and I used the cream and I have never gotten them again, and that was a year and a half ago. Where my boyfriend has had them for year and a half, and the cream dosen't work so he has to have them burned off, which he really hates. Once you have the virus it usually takes 3 months for them to show up.

[sexykitty]

You have to remember that if you get genital warts you will have them for the rest of your life and if you change sexual partners you will pass them on. It will impede your ability to find a partner... unless you hide it from them until it is too late. I would not date anyone who had them and I don't know anyone who would.

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]Thankfully she’s not pregnant (I can't wait to have kids, but know there's no way I can have them now)

You also have to remember that this can be passed on to your children if your partner is having an outbreak during labor.

[stressedandundersexed]

Hey look. I got hpv (genital warts) about 2 years ago and believe me...it's not the end of the world. When I first got it I thought the same thing that you thought...Panic. I started with getting them burnt off. Then I got the cream to maintain. The first thing I did was read everything there is to read about hpv. I read a statistic somewhere that said the chances of having hpv if you've been with 3 or more partners is like 90%. There are dozens if not hundreds of hpv strains. The ones that don't show up as warts are the most dangerous...and the fact is that even those aren't that dangerous. These strains show up on a pap-smere and in studies show that a woman is at a slightly higher risk of getting uteran cancer. The strains that show up as warts are just a nuscence. In fact, over time your body could possibly fight off hpv. Some people get several reoccurrences of the warts and never have them again. I don't wory about telling my partners...(I actually havn't had any partners since my diagnosis, but I've come to this conclusion before the situation arises.) The fact is that most sexually active people have this but don't even know they have it. Look, it's not the end of the world. Just get it treated if it happens, don't worry about having sex with your partner that has it because your next one will probably have it too, and take care of your body so you can have the best chance of developing antiboties to fight off this virus.

[mike]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ] I don't wory about telling my partners... The fact is that most sexually active people have this but don't even know they have it.

And guess what? If, in fact, most sexually active people have HPV (I doubt it)- its because of people like you. I only hope that your potential partners can realize what kind of scum you are before they jump in bed with you.