Problems Cumming

[Gazz]

I have never been able to whack off and actually cum, I have tried everything and eventually I gave up; although it was annoying because it had to come out some how and without sex every month or so a wet dream was the only way it was going to. Like I said I could kind of deal with this problem, but somthing related to this has now reared it's ugly head.
Me and my partner have had great sex but I don't cum all the time, if I am really really horny and haven't had sex in quite a while I will cum in about ten minutes when we have sex. But if we have had sex in the last few days I will go on for two hours until we have to stop because she is tired and I didn't cum. This happens more times than I actually do cum. The sex is great and I have no complaints but it makes her feel like she doesn't turn me on or she just can't do it for me and this really hurts me so I want to get it sorted. My opinion is that it is because I was circumsised when I was nine because of some mild infection and my bell end has become de-sensitised.

Thnx for any help.

Graham

[Rawbob]

Hi Gazz:

If you truely DO have decreased sensativity on the end of your penis due to a late circumcisian, then you will most likely have to learn other ways in which to achieve orgasm on a more timely basis!

My initial thought to you would be to include prostate stimulation as part of your play! Visit this site: http://www.highisland.com/description.html and learn about how including prostate massage along with your normal sex will help!
I own one and i can tell you from first hand experience that it works!

You also may need to include other techniques in your sex play. From Nipple play to rimming and more! Having a de-sensitized penis is NOT the end of your sex life, it just means adjusting techniques to take that into consideration!