Anal sex & pregnancy

[fez]

ok well here is what happened....me and my ex girl wanted a quickie before her parents came home, but we had no protection, so we dicided to do it anal (stpud i know)....
so she laid down on the floor and i got on top of her and well, stuck it in, and everything was ok and then i went to pull out, and i didnt pull out quick enough....and here is the prob...

some i think i did inside her butt and then i pulled out and some came out inside her cheeks and stuff like that....

i HAVE to know if any could of possible went into the vigina?? and right after we wiped it all off of her. should i be safe and go to "PLAN B" or you think i will be ok?? she also showered right after...

[ItalStall]

Your ex-girl? Ok, well ...

From your description it sounds possible that some sperm went into her vagina. How likely that is depends on how much (though it takes very little), how far it travelled and whether you got to clean it off fast enough before it migrated to her vaginal opening.

Also, even if she cleaned it off, if you came inside her rectum, the sperm will drain out and again might possibly migrate to her vagina. In both cases note that I emphasized "possible"; it is NOT necessarily probable.

If this happened in the last couple of days or so, and she thinks she might have getten sperm in her vagina, the safe thing to do would be an immediate visit to the doctor to consider the option of the Morning-after Pill.

Next time, if you don't have protection stick to something safer. A bare penis near the vagina is always a risk!

[demonbuttercup]

yea next time try anal w/ her on her back so the laws of gravity will send the sperm towards her back not right down to her vagina. but like ital said any bare parts touching eachother isn't always a wise choice.

[girlygirl]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (demonbuttercup @ June 01 2003,17:38)]yea next time try anal w/ her on her back so the laws of gravity will send the sperm towards her back not right down to her vagina.

I don't think that would help, since the drainage would continue after she stood up. Instead, next time you want to have anal or vaginal sex, wait until you have a condom.

[fez]

this happened today at like 7pm est. and this is the most regretable thing i have ever done....and we cleaned it right away, and she didnt stand up or anything untill i wiped it off, and she kept wiping and then took a shower....you think we should use PLAN B (morning after pill) to be safe?

also, she is supposed to have her period on the 12th of this month, and today is the 1st, would that have any effects or anything like that that we should be concerned about?

[demonbuttercup]

i know girlygirl a condom is a better solution w/ any type of sex i was just stating the fact that when you do a girl from behind anally the first place the ejaculate is going to flow is to her vagina. there is just no getting around it.

[fez]

if it was her last fertile day so does that mean since its her last day then is not worse, or a little better?...how bad could it be???

[demonbuttercup]

im not real sure how fertility on cycle days are. maybe brandye will be able to help you w/ this one.

[ItalStall]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (fez @ June 01 2003,18:31)]also, she is supposed to have her period on the 12th of this month, and today is the 1st, would that have any effects or anything like that that we should be concerned about?

A woman can get pregnant on any day of the month - including during her period (though less likely).

You were not close enough to her period for that to be a realistic help.

I repeat - if you think there is a reasonable chance sperm got inside her, and you don't want to take any chance, go to the doctor to discuss Plan B!