Think before u do it

[honeyb16]

i have just started this post not to have an enquiry but to get peoples views on this and their stories. now, i dont regret having sex, but as you have more than likey seen from my other posts i was petrified after that i could be pregnant even though we used protection. i have been feeling sick with worry non stop and just praying for my period becuase i am always late anyway. i came on today 3 days late, and i cried with happiness. now girls if you really feel ready it does hit you emotionally first. i know people say dont get yourself into sex until you know the facts of what happens after, but it still affects you mentally,
sex is great and as i said before i dont regret it but it makes me realise what could had been. i kept seeing programmes to do with babies and pregnancy conveniently and it was eating me up inside thinking what the hell would i knew. the only thing i knew would be to have an abortion and that would be what i would do. but as i said im over the moon at the moment and im in no rush to keep having sex. so all girls please just be careful and enjoy yourselfs. x x x

[demonbuttercup]

yea i know the feeling of being a few days late and then all these thoughts crowd your mind of what the hell am i going to do now. i also realized that the more you worry and make yourself sick over it the more likely you will show signs of being prego and be paranoid. like you worry yourself sick then your like oh was that morning sickness? also, stress and worrying can cause your period to go wacky also causing you to be a few days late then you worry even more! its all just a vicious cycle. but i agree just everyone should take the precautions and be as careful as they can but not worry so much that they ruin the act. i mean if you use condoms and spermicidal lube and take all the xtra precautions your chances of getting prego are slim. i also thought about getting one of those fertility tests things that tell you what days of your cycle you are most fertile and using it in the opposite means by NOT having sex on or around those days. does that make sense? i wonder if that would work b/c i never know what days of my cycle im more prone to becoming prego.

[?wiseman?]

Honeyb16, I'm happy to hear that everything has turned out for the best. As you know, I've followed the chronology of your posts and I think that they should be required reading for all of the young teenagers who happen upon this board.

All, here's a young lady that you can learn from. Read through her posts and learn from here experiences.

Cheers, honeyb16!

[honeyb16]

thanks, i feel like i can put my feelings onto this board, and there were times where i was so worried and now everything is ok, iv had my period and im starting to feel better in myslef knowing im ok.