Withdrawal method

[sam2002]

the other night me and my boyfriend had sex quite a few times in the same night and a couple of times in the mornin every time he used the withdrawl method and pulled out b4 he came even tho he pulled out could i still be pregnant cos some ppl have told me that i could he didnt use ne protection at all! thanx to anybody who replies i appreciate it .... luv sam xxxx

[Risky]

Well Sam there is always a chance with everything and pulling out isn't one of the greatest methods. Sometime the male has a pre-ejaculation which does contain some sperm. So I would say to use a condom or some other kind of protection other than pulling out. Have Fun!!!

[Brandye]

Anytime you have a penis in you, there is a possibility. Sperm are always present in the male urethra. Even before ejaculation, they are escaping into you. Withdrawal is beter than taking the full shot but it is a very undependable birth control method. You get some vaginal jelly and have your boyfriend buy the condoms. Use them both.

[Kitty]

what is vaginal jelly?

[AJM]

vaginal jelly, you mean like a spermicidal agent?

anyway, anytime there is penetration there is a chance for pregnancy, that's how it works

[Brandye]

Vaginal jelly is a spermicidal jelly such Ortho Gynol, Gynol II or K-Y Plus. Foams, suppositories, films are also available. The point is, when pregnancy would be a really big problem, condom on the guy with spermicidal protection in the vagina are both indicated.

Please see my looonng post on the straight scoop.

[Ascended Jamez]

u do cum b4 u have an orgasm or even when you don't even realise that your cumming!---it is not safe at all!

[eyekon]

I had sexual intercourse with my girlfriend twice in a row. In my first orgasm, I withdrew perfectly... and I dried my penis off sperm. Some 30 minutes later, we engaged in another sexual intercourse... I am wondering if there is a risk of pregnancy, having dried my penis from sperm and went inside her again... I am sure it was dry, but does dry sperm (in case some was left) remain healthy???

Is my question weird? *


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[lonely19yrold]

Withdrawal isn't a very effective way to go about avoiding pregnancy. In fact, it's the least effective way.

eyekon, I have no answer for your question. Sorry.

[girlygirl]

No, sperm does not live after it is dry. However, you can't be sure that all of the sperm were dead. It is quite likely that there were still living sperm inside your urethra. There may even have been some in there the first time you had sex. If it has been less than 72 hours since you had sex, your girlfriend should look into the morning after pill. In the future, use a safer form of birth control. You can find out about various forms of birth control here:

birth control