G/f's Late for Period

[rubber]

ok so the last time me and my gf had sex was about a week ago and her period hasn't came yet. i am positive that i didn't come in her because i didn't even ejaculate. i am worried because her period hasnt came. i was also thinking that maybe it will come later because her periods are irregular. if i remember correctly every month she has had it on a different day 4, 9, 12, and 15. december 15 was her last period and it's now jan. 20. should i be worried about this or could it her period come later?

[xx22xx]

If she's stressed out, over exercizing, or not eating (Trust me, not a smart thing to do, if that's the case turn it around now before it turns worse) then that is why it could be late. I've heard that having sex can also make it be late sometimes. And so can being pregnant of course.

Go out and get a pregnancy test. I don't remember whether it is before or after your period that you are more likely to get pregnant...maybe someone else can help with that.

As you know, condoms aren't 100 percent effective, and you should be using two kinds of birth control (Trust me on that one too) But no where in your post did I read that you used any kind of birth control. Big mistake if that's true, because there is pre-cum, which contains the same stuff as when you actually do cum, and yes, that can get her pregnant.

Good Luck

[rubber]

i admit that i didn't use protection and i just hope she's not pregnant. she does't eat very good either, her mom tells me that she's doesn't eat that much. but now my g/f tells me that she's been getting hungry a lot and is eating more which worries me because most pregnant women eat quite a bit or i've heard (or is it, that women start eating a lot when they have a visible belly?).

[xx22xx]

The best advice I can offer you is to get a pregnancy test. I have been in your girlfriend's position before, it's really stressful not knowing. And yes, it's better to know than not to know. All you can do is hope she's not pregnant! It's too late to get the morning after pill. I wouldn't worry about the whole hungry thing, it's probably just a coincidence. Make sure she eats normally! Just go get a pregnancy test, while you're at it, birth control.

[Brandye]

Teenaged women, younger, especially, are notoriously erratic with their periods. That means they are also irregular in ovulating. Abare penis near an uncovered vagina is risky whether you ejaculate or not. Just do not do it. You are always oozing sperm.


xx22xx syas get a pregnancy test. They are effective about a week after pregnancy occurs - not before. Get a pregnancy test and do some studying before you take any more unnecessary risks.

[Thing]

Hey!.. me and my EX-gf had that same problem this month

we did it on Jan 6, and we got scared since then, i was pretty sure she wasnt pregned. but still..

I was in your shoes... and she was really worried. it was one of her most fears, and had nightmares, and all...

she's 17 i'm 19... well because of all her confusions and problems, she broke up with me this last friday.
i loved her very much, and still miss her. she spected her period on 15 or so. it came on sunday. We were relieved but we are still separated...

I hope i can get her back!...
i think is better to buy those test. even if she says "no" is better to know. i didnt do it. and was really scared, facing reallity.
now i'm better but thats a lesson i think you'll learn

[Shorty43]

1. Her period is irregular
2. If she is stressed and had been concerned about possibly being pregnant her period might be late
3. When I get stressed I eat a lot more than usual
4. Although you did have sex at a time where pregnancy could occur, it was not at the peak time

I wouldn't worry too much yet. Condoms are not perfect but I have enough confidence to say that when used correctly they will do their job. I have never had sex without a condom before and until I am married I do not plan on it. I have never had sex when the condom has broken or slipped off before either. But, I still worry every month that I am pregnant, I don't know why, but I do. That worrying causes my periods to be erratic.

[Tjdude]

I have a question related to this post.
If a woman is breast feeding, can she get pregnant?
a friend of mine is late on her period, but she just had a baby like 3 or 4 months ago. Could she be pregnant again so fast? my friend said that she can't until she stop breast feeding hre baby but i'm not so sure about that. Any advice?

[ItalStall]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Tjdude @ Jan. 21 2003,14:56)]If a woman is breast feeding, can she get pregnant?

I pasted the following from the "Planned Parenthood" website:

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]Continuous Breast-feeding — LAM (Lactational Amenorrhea Method)...
... you will breast-feed on demand for up to six months after delivery. Baby will have no other foods. This will prevent the ovaries from releasing an egg.

up to 98% EFFECTIVE
can be effective for up to six months only IF a woman has not had a period since the delivery, suckles at least six times a day on both breasts (every four hours), and wakes baby for nighttime breast-feedings

not effective against sexually transmitted infections — use latex or female condoms to reduce the risk


ADVANTAGES

For babies

provides the best nutrition
decreases the likelihood of infections, allergies, and possibly, asthma
increases mother and child bonding

For mothers

no medical or hormonal side effects
requires no supplies or medical supervision


POSSIBLE DISADVANTAGES

only effective for six months after delivery
can be difficult to exclusively breast-feed

So, she COULD get pregnant if she isn't following the above criteria EXACTLY.

[Tjdude]

oooh! i did not knew about that LAM
Thanks ItalStall *