Im sure this has been asked a million times on this site but i dont have alot of time to look so are these two methods when used together effective enough to ensure that a baby wont be on the way?. I know the pull out method is really ineffective but would say that plus the patch or the pill work together well enough to be comfortable? if anyone has experience with this then please tell me.
Sun, 04/12/2009 - 23:34
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birth control + pull out method
CONDOMS...... Why are you not using these.. You want to get disease's?
I had 2 babies while being on the Pill...
and the pull out method is a fools game....
Birth control refers to any method of reducing the chances of becoming pregnant - including withdrawal. There is a sticky that gives the realistic success (or failure rates) of all methods. Read it.
You do not have time to look for yourself? How rude. We should do your prep work for you? You should not have the time for sex if you do not have the time to protect yourself.
Condoms hurt? Don't stop using them. Use lubricant. Make sure the condoms are the correct size and the right kind.
Frankly - it is totally unfair to ask her to pump her body full of hormooones (see the risks thereof elsewhere) while he gets off free.
Also The Pill does nothing to prevent transmission of disease - doesn't matter how long you have been together.
Until you're ready to have children, protection, protection, protection.
* If a woman is not prepared to become a mother, she should be using some form of highly effective birth control.
* If a man is not prepared to become a father, he should be using a condom.
* If the couple is not ready for parenthood, they should be using a back up method like spermicide.
A condom with lubricant applied to the exterior works well. (DO NOT use a lubricated condom.)
If you do not want to use a condom, at the very least use the other two methods together.
Pulling out does not work well because-
a) there is every likelihood of sperm in precum
b) no matter how good the intentions, when it gets down to the "wire", guys often do not pull out in time, if at all
Try different types of condoms.
* If not Latex then...
+ Poly
+ Natural
(Read up on each before choosing.)
mixing two forms of bitrht controll does lower the chances also if you add in spermacide then the chances of pregnancy are astronomical, even with spermacide and no pull out the chances are really low of pregnancy, but if you don't know your partner is clean use condoms
i know my partner and we have been together for 4 years. I am protecting myself now but since my partner thinks condoms hurt i was just looking for a way that we could be comfortable without useing condoms. I said i didnt have time to look because i had to go to work at 530am the next morning and it was 9pm so i had to go to bed. ive been reading alot on all the different types of bc and i just wanted to know if other people used these methods effectivly.
READ THE STICKY. And take all this advice.
I would recommend if you are not ready to have kids research on the IUD’s there is different kinds out (ex. Mirena) or the pill or shots. What ever works for you and what makes you comfortable.
Research there is condoms that work for every one.
The way I see it if the penis touches the vagina there is a possibility to get pregnant. (sorry if the way I put it sounds ugly or vulgar)
Condoms should be a must to protect from any type if HIV diseases even if you have been with someone for 5 or 6 or 10 or 20 years does not mean you know for a fact they are clean. As sad as it is people cheat and we are not 100% sure if they use protection. Sometimes we don’t even know they are having sexual contact with someone. And for a fact don’t know if who they are with are clean.
I am not saying you cant have intercourse with out a condom don’t get me wrong I was just giving my opinion on how you said “I know my partner and we have been together for 4 years” I personally would not relay on just knowing someone when it comes to my health, because in the end if I caught some kind of HIV I would be the one that has to deal with it and if I can prevent it why not u know?
So girl research and be safe and look for a birth control plan that best works for you.
(sorry if my choice of words is not proper an not to good in English but I do my best, I apologize I hope ya can understand what am trying to get at)
really men buy them too small, how odd, ? if the condom hurts, maybe it just isnt important enough to him, try abstinance, have him kiss you or lick you or, and he wont get hurt, maybe thats the best way, if hes getting you off with his finger, there arent any worries about control, lots of good advice so far, i have often wondered if an oversized condom would slipe off, or slide away, i so didnt know there were sizes, that onformation could change the way men look at condoms, maybe if women did all the comdom research and work, men wouldnt mind wearing them, after all, the men dont seem to care, they arent obligated to say, yeah thats a good idea, if you cant do without sex, do the work, measure the cock, and work to buy the condoms, otherwise, men will have to do the research, and do the work to buy the condoms, hardly seems fair, just abstain, after all, if you dont want a baby, or disease, what else can you do, ? man doesnt want to buy the condoms, or measure or all that stuff, didnt you figure that out before i came over?, he is sure to say maybe its would be best if we didnt have sex tonight, i mean if it hurts, what male would want to go to that degree to pease a girl he loves, ( lotta sarcasm and ways to turn this to a girls advantage )
Condoms when correctly fitted and used do not hurt.
If your size is not known then use the handy chart at www.condomania.com and find out what size you are and what size condom you require. (Follow directions.) Most men buy them TOO SMALL. Shocking, but there it is. If in doubt when going from the sizes listed on condomania to those available at your local shop, buy the biggest they stock.
Trying to put 10 pounds of sausage into a 5 pound casing would hurt.
shouldnt this be in new to sex?
ill - Can't you write in sentences?
Why would it be up to the women to do the research? I mean it should be up to both to look together. As for the size; don’t you think the male would know what fits him and what does not? Its like saying the male should do the research on birth control pills ext he would not know what works for us their for if you are a couple then why not both do some research?
If they do not want kids its up to BOTH to protect them self’s its not only one persons responsibility it tacks two.
If he wont take the time to research on what condom works for him then he might not be worth your time. What if he is just saying it hurts to get you to do it with out a condom? If that’s the case them how do you know he does not say that to other females? Why not try a female condom? I personally have not tried one and do not know much about them but there is good info on that on here. Using them kind of condoms should not hurt, I don’t think, well I wouldn’t know like I said never used them.
Pull out is not a birth control method. At least not one with any confidence. Its a risk.
i went to that condomainia site. it was really cool. i did everything it asked and ordered a box. now all i have to do it get her to want to use one which is extreamly difficult. lol but i enjoy trying. thanks for the link.
well i bought some condoms off that site............they fit perfect but she thought they hurt even more. so we had unprotected sex and it was amazing in comparison but still waiting on if im a daddy. that brings up the other delema of should i ask about getting a snipsnip.
Few doctors would even consider doing a vasectomy on anyone under thirty without compelling reason.
Unprotected sex is for those who want children right now. Unless there was a wrinkle in the condom the only reason for pain for the woman would be lack of lubrication. Use vaginal jelly and you get the benefit of lube and additional contraception.
Guys - you grease the condom before you insert yourself into her and reapply as often as needed.