this is normal if you are nervous you can't do it. find a place and time where threr is no pressure. have her try to get you up look at a mag or watch a pron to gather.

As another old fuddy-duddy, I must agree with BB, but for a slightly different reason. If you persue the board deep enough, you'll find that I've often recommended caution and also have advised that some "sexual dysfunction" is simply the result of "not being ready" emotionally and mentally. That doesn't always have to do with age, but there's often a correlation. I'm less concerned with legality than I am the whole person(s).

Yes, it is a sex site. But it's supposed to be a sex information site, not a "get as much as you can as soon as you can" site.

It is also a forum. People are supposed to be able to express their opinions. (We seem compelled to have THIS discussion on a regular basis!)

There are some good ideas and opinions for over-coming the problem. Postponing the act for a bit is simply one more idea and one more opinion.

I don’t want to detract from the original question but I do want to point out that yes this is the internet and in my county the legal age for sex is 16, therefore in my conscious I cannot give advice to someone who then may do something illegal after receiving that advice. It is not that I am some fuddy duddy who believe that you should wait until you are married, the moment rich turns the legal age for sex in my country I’d write him a whole essay. But I would not encourage any one to do anything illegal, hell I won’t even buy knocked off goods.
Despite being thought of as some kind of killjoy and disapproving old fart here, I was still the only person who brought up the safe sex and contraception issue. Perhaps rich’s experience was the “penis talking” because perhaps this hadn’t been sorted out.

Rich it’s nothing personal but in my county you are a minor, if you are not in yours then go right ahead.

P.S I don’t want this to detract from the original thread so I will not hijack the thread by further arguing with people who don’t share my opinion.

[QUOTE=Quote (bignrich @ Dec. 02 2004,18:27)]yeah i stil am a virgin. i mean i wanst really nervous shit just happend[/QUOTE]
yo man calm down. You dont have to change ur postion becuse of what some man says about abstanace ( i think thast how u spell it). Hes on a sex info site what does he think hes gonna see?
Stay with it . Dont be put down by those kinda people.
Like Cornelious said before he was side steping ur quistion , no matter his belifes to the contrary. Also its just the internet. If u think ur ready do it , if not dont . But dont let us change ur mind on the matter.
Anyhows man Good luck eather way u go.

Bignrich, you're not the only guy this ever happened to. Lots of guys wake up with the "morning wood". Often it is because of bladder pressure and urinating will relieve it.

When you two are together you may want to experiment with a 69 oral arrangement which usually gets both ready for sex in a plesant and constructive way. Lot of times guy are so
impressed with the girl they are with that they repress a feeling they get which makes them stay limp when they want
to be erect. If you and this girl haven't done oral 69 yet...it is a great way to get to know each other and get over being
intimidated by her "beauty" or whatever.(some guys and girls too feel like they were so lucky to get this person that they are with to date them...but feel they are batting out of their league with them.....and find themselves impotent) I dated a girl like that one time who felt I was so great and she didn't measure up. It took a while to get her to overcome her inner fears but there are lots of people who go thru this especially when they don't have too much experience.

Other things that can nag at ya, are being at her folks house...worrying about the friends of her mom and dad who may have seen you visit the home when there were no parents there and stay so long..ya know. It would bother me.
There are some who call this "the wisdom of the penis"...as it knows the danger signs when its owner doesn't.

Night time's the right time, as the old saying goes. Better to be away from there and meet somewhere where you have stowed some old blankets etc away in a plastic trash bag in a secluded place. If you have a small 2 person tent or a plastic tarp you can make a rough shelter out of you would be in
good shape when weather permits.

Good luck and I hope nobody saw ya and tells her folks.

eDJ

If you re-read my answer I didn’t preach because I didn’t say “don’t do it” I only said that I wouldn’t…stating your own opinion is not preaching.
Life is about options and I don’t think that it’s harmful to suggest not having sex so young…plus this is a forum, so I am entitled to give my opinion just as much as you are entitled to say that you didn’t like my answer and I am 100% fine with that, in fact I knew someone here was bound not to like it…because hey it’s a forum and everybody is different, but that doesn’t mean I am going to shy away from stating what I think.
Nobody had suggested not having sex and nobody, including rich who asked the question in the first place, had made any mention of safe sex or contraception which is a rather important issue and always worth mentioning…especially to “first timers”

I dont understand why sometimes when people come here with a legtimiate questions some people sidestep the question entirely and begin to preach to these people who asked for help on a specific issue. At least include some form of answer to his question if you're going to lecture him about making sure he's using contraception the right way,etc.

Sorry but sex at 15 with a girl “who’s not my girlfriend”…I’m afraid I wouldn’t be doing it. I seriously hope you have the safe sex and the contraception issue sorted out…unless you want to be a teen parent.

Sounds like nerves to me. Don't put yourself into a "I need to have sex at such and such a precise time" because you'll drive yourself nuts and your penis will become non responsive. Just relax, or wait til a time when you feel more comfortable with the thought of having sex. If you're sure you're ready though just relax and enjoy it, don't turn it into a big monumentous occasion.

i dont know if it is scientificly proven but it workes for me . Kindaish i guess.
Anyhows . Jerk off tonight , But dont finish. Then if u have a few mins in the morning look at some porn. Start to mess around then stop . Then u can go to her house. All the build up should help with ur desier.
Anyhows good luck!

Are you still a virgin?
It can only be nerves. It's not a physical problem b/c you had morning wood, so we know your penis works.
Maybe it was just telling you you weren't exactly ready for it.