When I was younger -5- one of my older friends told me to stick my legs up on the ends of the shower end and let the water flow down onto my vagina ... harder it is the better. I had no clue what this was becuase I was so young. I did that for about 5 years adding more pressure and everything because I enjoyed it. There was nothing else in the world that felt this way. Well when I moved in with my brother 3 years later -now 13- he had a movable shower head... yeah you get the point. I stopped when I noticed what this thing has done to me. I havent done it in 2 years.
Now for doing this over a 8 year spand I have noticed that my vagina skin is loose and hangs out and is really uncomfortable when i wear high jeans. Its rather embarrasing. And when I try to masturbate it hurts and is fairly uncomfortable.
My last boyfriend said that is was nothing and had said nothing about it. I guess it didnt bother him but it bothered my a lot more.
I wanted no if there is anyway that I could do anything about this. :(
Yes, there is, but I doubt that you want to. First, once again, nothing has been done to your vagina which is inside. In fact, the shower has done nothing to you. If those pulsing jets from a telephone shower caused problems, I would have a huge problem. In fact, I could argue that it has been good for you because the water has improved circulation to parts that are often all bound up in panties, thongs, tight jeans and whatever.
You have simply grown and some of us have rather large inner lips (labia menora) that protrude beyond our outer lips. In some very few women these are quite distended and interfere with sex or, even, sitting comfortably. If these interfere with normal life, surgical reduction is possible. Some women have this done cosmetically. I am not a big fan of that but google "labial reduction" and you will find a ton of stuff - including before and after pictures. These may give you some perspective on whether or not your are out of the ordinary.