ok.... i know this topic has been asked several times and i've read several posts but i cant seem to find my answer...or perhaps i know it already...but anyway here goes...
first of all i never masturbated alone - for upbringing reasons and also d fact that i always have long nails - so not the most comfortable of things
my question is this...so whenever my bf and i have sex or he fingers/orals me or watever my 'process-to-pleasure' so to speak is the following:
i get really excited, tell him to keep doing what his doing/not stop/etc, start breathing very fast, tensing up and really into it etc. then (without any particular reaction to trigger it) my body just seems to start slowing down, breathing eases, i ask him to slow down or just stroke me gently and eventually just let go and lay there. then after a couple of seconds i start getting these 'electric pulses' which go through my whole body - starting at my vagine and going through my legs and arms.
its a weird feeling because it feels like a post-orgasm or sthing. its like i dont actually feel any 'explosion' of energy or see stars or anything while he's touching me....and then i get this feeling after while we're just laying there and its all over.
has this happened to anyone else? is it still a kind of orgasm?
it puts both my bf and me off stimes because its like we cant enjoy cumming together
any feedback welcome and thanks!!!
[QUOTE=sera300;161933]It sounds as if you are having an orgasm...just the climax is not really strong. Try to prolong the foreplay a bit more...have him get you excited and slow down a bit, and keep doing this a few times, then see if you have a stronger orgasm. Does the same happen during penetration? During oral & manual stim. my orgasms are very weak...they are much, much stronger and pleasureable w/intercourse.[/QUOTE]
Yeah its mostly the same kind of reaction....we could try starting and stopping ... i'll have to see if my bf can manage it though...coz it usually takes quite a while till i build up to d first climax that either his fingers would b tired or he would have cum.
thanks for the input.... more suggestions welcome!! :)
It sounds as if you are having an orgasm...just the climax is not really strong. Try to prolong the foreplay a bit more...have him get you excited and slow down a bit, and keep doing this a few times, then see if you have a stronger orgasm. Does the same happen during penetration? During oral & manual stim. my orgasms are very weak...they are much, much stronger and pleasureable w/intercourse.