Ok, this is sorta off topic but w/e. I'm 17, and I lost my virginity 2 years ago. Me and that girl dated till 6 weeks ago. Now I have met this new girl, and she wants to screw me...(Just being Honest). It's not that i don't want cause in all honesty I want to but im worried about a few things. My previous girl was on the larger side and liked quickies, so thats what i am used to. This new girl is smaller then me, and likes to take our time (which i would rather do to). So first question, I never had to learn to control when I climax, so I'm worried that i'm not going to be able to hold back. The second part is since this girl is so much smaller and I have a big ____... I have already fingered her a few times and she is TIGHT, she claims she has had sex before but even my ex b4 who deff was a virgin wasn't as tight as her.... So im worried that im going to hurt her and stuff idk... So my two biggest questions are does anyone have any tips for holding back, and does anyone have any advice for when your switching to a totally different girl? Thanks
Sat, 07/17/2010 - 01:13
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Big difference between girlfriends
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> My previous girl was on the larger side and liked quickies, so thats what i am used to. This new girl is smaller then me, and likes to take our time (which i would rather do to).
Well, the old saying about teaching an old dog new tricks has a flip side: It is easy to teach young bucks new tricks. So, not to worry. Please read the following two-part article:
HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED! To which I say:
> I never had to learn to control when I climax, so I'm worried that i'm not going to be able to hold back.
Your concern has merit, yet why worry about something that has not yet happened? Better to be armed and ready, just in case, yet worrying is one way to cause what you fear.
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation
> I have already fingered her a few times and she is TIGHT, she claims she has had sex before but even my ex b4 who deff was a virgin wasn't as tight as her.... So im worried that im going to hurt her and stuff idk.
Please read the articles in the section about being ready for sex. Make sure you devote at least half an hour to having a great make out session in order to get her properly excited and aroused. You will benefit from the time spent, also. Next make sure she is very wet. Have some lube handy in case she requires some. You should probably apply some to your condom, also. (Do not bother purchasing the lubricated variety, adding lube is better.)
There is an article on first time intercourse, so read this one, for more information. I recommend that the two of you read all of the articles, together or individually, then discuss each and the information you have acquired. Knowledge is empowering.
> So my two biggest questions are does anyone have any tips for holding back, and does anyone have any advice for when your switching to a totally different girl?
Yup! asked and answered, above. I hope this is of help. Got questions?
-doc
1. Wear a condom. Not only do they prevent pregnancy and std transmission but they also make it easier for you quick ejaculators to hold off.
2. With every new partner, the first sexual interlude will be the worst interlude you will have with him/her. Deploy one skill after another and see what she/he likes. Take notes.
...... and do not measure any against another. When you do that, everybody loses. Especially you.