Bi-Sexual, Do You Thinks It's Greedy?

I am not attracted to men romantically, only sexually. Where as with woman, I am attracted to both the body and soul, so to speak. It's not like I have a choice in the matter, I am what I am. Greed implies choice. I don't choose to like men or woman, I just do.

I did not realize that so here i am at.....69!!!!!!:D

NewChic.......are you causing trouble again????

yay newchic just 69ed hehehhehe nice one girl

Nutty you are sooooooooo nice yet so bad..........is it hard being both?
Which do you prefer?

I think you have a vivid imagination - or at least are kidding yourself.

Nope, not greedy. If a person knows what they like and the people involved have no problems, then what you are doing is alright. No one has the right to judge you for the things you like as long as you are not harming anyone. I think that it is your business and yours alone, but do I find that greedy? Nope, it is fun ;)

Well stated New.........to each his/her own. Greed is a emotion devoid of
much value. To keep something close without allowing others to enjoy or
be apart of is simply a waste of time.........

mmm newchic is just one post off 69.;).. nice lol:p

Ohhhhhhhh Nutty you say the sweetest things..........:p:p:p

ehehhehe yeah of course I do lol

I second that motion......ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

YES BEING BISEXUAL IS GREEDY!!!!!

AND HAVING SEX HAS BEEN LINKED TO COCAINE ABUSE AND TIME TRAVEL

:rolleyes:

[quote=TangerineSky69420;214473][FONT=Trebuchet MS][COLOR=red][CENTER]I have people tell me all the time that i'm greedy because i like both men and women. I can't help that I love the roughness of a man but the gental touch of a woman. Sex with either one is damn sexy either way. Penis vs. Ass and Titties, for me, I just couldn't pick one, so I chose both. Do you think that Bi-Sexual's are greedy?[/CENTER]
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Greedy depends on your honesty--if honest and the other accepts---no big issue. Lie yes it is greed.

If you're referring to sexual desires and turn-ons I don't know how anyone could consider it greedy. Maybe they're jealous that you have a bigger sexual vocabulary than they do. If you mean being in a relationship and telling your partner "sorry, you've got to accept I'm gonna play with other people because I'm bi" then I agree with Sera - that would be. But if that's established at the beginning and he has no problem with it . . . . then it's no problem. ;-)

[quote=DVDBear;214554]If you're referring to sexual desires and turn-ons I don't know how anyone could consider it greedy. Maybe they're jealous that you have a bigger sexual vocabulary than they do. If you mean being in a relationship and telling your partner "sorry, you've got to accept I'm gonna play with other people because I'm bi" then I agree with Sera - that would be. But if that's established at the beginning and he has no problem with it . . . . then it's no problem. ;-)[/quote]DVD; you know my past...I have no issue with it unless one conceals it or does not realize it. If they jeopardize my health due to their lack of honesty? They are done. If their emotional attachment is stronger to another [I was the wife]--they are done due to lack of honesty & acceptance by his parents. If people are upfront about "Hey I am Bi" then I can choose to decline the relationship. I always tell people; "If I were BI; think of the pool of potential dates I could have!" Main issue is I am not sexually attracted to women! I am just friends with them; although, I find both male/female bodies attractive; I am not sexually aroused by women. I think it's genetic.

I agree with you completely, Sera. I hope it didn't sound like I was putting qualifiers on your previous answer. I was assuming that it starts with honesty . . . . it HAS to. If someone is bi and ever intends to act on their bi-sexuality after getting into a relationship with someone they need to put it out there at the beginning so the potential partner knows what they're getting into. It's completely destructive to sneak behind someone's back and indulge with the rationalization "Well, I'm not really cheating because they can't satisfy me in this way". That's total B.S. (although I've heard it tons of times). Deceit is the one thing (I believe) a relationship can never completely recover from. And if you're bi and hide it and your partner finds out you've acted on it's a double whammy . . . . . not only have you cheated on them but hidden an important part of who you are. Serious bad news.

[quote=DVDBear;214575]I agree with you completely, Sera. I hope it didn't sound like I was putting qualifiers on your previous answer. I was assuming that it starts with honesty . . . . it HAS to. If someone is bi and ever intends to act on their bi-sexuality after getting into a relationship with someone they need to put it out there at the beginning so the potential partner knows what they're getting into. It's completely destructive to sneak behind someone's back and indulge with the rationalization "Well, I'm not really cheating because they can't satisfy me in this way". That's total B.S. (although I've heard it tons of times). Deceit is the one thing (I believe) a relationship can never completely recover from. And if you're bi and hide it and your partner finds out you've acted on it's a double whammy . . . . . not only have you cheated on them but hidden an important part of who you are. Serious bad news.[/quote]No, I think you and I share the same sentiments on the matter. If one figures it out, need to be upfront. Part of life is allowing the one you love grow--even if it hurts!:) I agree with the "not cheating BS as well b/c it was a bi encounter...sex is sex. Whatever it is; it is...sex with another. If agreed to straight or bi--fine people just need to be honest. Gets me on the tangent of men who pawn themselves off as "unmarried" and are out while the wife is home!!!!:)

The one I get when I ask a guy who interested in a sexual encounter with me if he's single or in an open relationship is "I have a partner, but we have a 'don't ask, don't tell' relationship." Uh huh. Never mind . . . .

[quote=DVDBear;214580]The one I get when I ask a guy who interested in a sexual encounter with me if he's single or in an open relationship is "I have a partner, but we have a 'don't ask, don't tell' relationship." Uh huh. Never mind . . . .[/quote] Don't feel too bad; I get the same "line"! Or it's "my partner/wife does not understand me!" :)

[COLOR=black]This is my first post on this site, so here it goes. I want to first start out by saying that I am a male and I am bi. Personally I don't think that it is being selfish because you want to foul around with more then just one person. I have never been a big fan of monogamy. As long as you are not in a committed relationship and your partner is ok with it (and knows you always use protection) then I don’t think that there is a problem with wanting to be with other people. It should also make no difference if the other person is of the same gender as you or not. [/COLOR]
[COLOR=black] I once was with this girl who was also bisexual and we had an open relationship and it was very hot. So I say that you should never feel greedy about your desires even if you act on them. As long as you are not lying or deceiving some one you care about don’t feel bad. [/COLOR]

I am bisexual and feel that it is not greedy! I think that bisexuals have more enjoyment because they can have the best of both worlds.

no, its not being greedy. its being well rounded. i think bi's have more fun because they can have the best of both worlds. Some are more man or female dominant but it all boils down to pleasure. Who is doing it the best.

I think bisexuals are more adventurous risk takers. They bridge that gap and actually taste what they crave.

[QUOTE=constantlylearning;214910]Nutty you are sooooooooo nice yet so bad..........is it hard being both?
Which do you prefer?[/QUOTE]

Well my dear CL:p as Meatloaf says " Good Girls go to heaven...Bad Girls go everywhere"

or I have a T-shirt that says.... "Good girls are just bad girls who havent been caught"

And yes it does get a little hard.. with all the different personalitiies
I have to use during the day with my work...

I think I would prefer to be a bad girl all the time lol:D;)

It's only fun when I do cause trouble. As the saying goes, nice girls rarely make history!! :cool:

I do not think anyone was trying to give you a pep talk so much as just giving an opinion to the question you asked. Hopefully, it gave you some insite to the delema you seem to be having. It just seems that the way you worded it to begin with you needed some self reassurance. My feeling is that if you love who you are screw everyone else. The most important person you have to please is yourself and people tend to love you for that. Good luck with everything and do not have too much fun ;) Just kidding have more fun then the law allows!!!

Nutty exactly how bad are we talking here?????? This needs to be completely
understood......LOL I bet there is rarely a dull moment with you around. New,
are you indeed trying to make history if so, you are well on your way.:p
And still no good stories around the work place??

Oh Lord, where to start. I am not sure that my retina's will ever be the same after a 70 year old man came out of the dressing room in a man thong and asked if that is how they are supposed to fit?! He then proceeded to share with me that it was a surprise for his wife for their 45th wedding aniv. :eek:
It was also awesome that the adventure was still there after 45 years. It is also hard to keep a straight face when men/women come to the counter and purchase the smallest cock ring we have or the penis extender. :rolleyes:
It is amazing what people will share with a sales rep. it is a blast!

LOL New you are very very funny......You should have your own thread and
retell stories that you see unfolding during your work. I can only imagine HOW
FUNNY these stories would be. You have a great sense of humor. Not sure
how to comment on the second to last sentence--I am hoping you are kidding. LOL

Of course I am. It is the motion of the ocean baby!!

You keep up the good work then.............are you gonna get "sea sick?"
But of course.:p;)

Yep, I am working with alot of motion and boat!!!:D I crack myself up

Now you behave please...........LOL

Well since you said please...

Much appreciated.......always use polite etiquette. It is always en vogue.
Shhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Greed is not an attractive quality period.................

[quote=constantlylearning;215833]Greed is not an attractive quality period.................[/quote]
No it's not...neither is vanishing...:)

Did you miss me? If so, how much?

[quote=constantlylearning;215848]Did you miss me? If so, how much?[/quote] Yes, it's been pretty lonely! How about very much! :)

Let's put it in numeric terms...........on a scale from 1 to 10 with
10 being the ultimate "missing." Does that set the plate enough
for you?? UMmmmmmmmm

[quote=constantlylearning;215867]Let's put it in numeric terms...........on a scale from 1 to 10 with
10 being the ultimate "missing." Does that set the plate enough
for you?? UMmmmmmmmm[/quote] TEN! Numerically speaking! :)

How very interesting............:p:o
10 you say?

[quote=constantlylearning;215873]How very interesting............:p:o
10 you say?[/quote]Yes, I said ten. Why the shock? :)

Well, it's just that it makes it so.............well you know.:o;)

[quote=constantlylearning;215919]Well, it's just that it makes it so.............well you know.:o;)[/quote] What's the issue? Someone finds you interesting and missed you? Especially the woman you never met. Yet loves heeled boots---S. Ferragamaos and has a closet filled w/the shoes and boots? Yet so much in common????;)

"Makes it so.....[insert word/words]"....:)

"So very nice........." not to mention.............:o

[quote=constantlylearning;215946]"So very nice........." not to mention.............:o[/quote] You are too funny! :)

Among other things........................:p
Thank you for noticing.........boat time................;)

[quote=constantlylearning;215983]Among other things........................:p
Thank you for noticing.........boat time................;)[/quote] As I said too funny...too cute--in a good way. You are welcome for 'noticing'; missed you around here. Enjoy the boat; went out with some friends yesterday, very choppy!:)