Okay, I'm 16 and I have a twin sister. My family has always done this and that is walk around nude in our house. My family consists of my dad, my sister, and me. Me and my sister have our own beds, but we always sleep with each other. Anyways, my b/f came over and we were talking about nudist camps. That's when we got on the topic about nudity in my family. He thinks its kinda strange that me and my sister sleep togehter too. My dad has never touched us, and me and my sister just sleep together, that's it. Is this strange?
Mon, 04/11/2005 - 03:10
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b/f thinks this is weird


I got in the water and she followed. She got out of her jeans and tee shirt and was just in her bar and panties. Once in the water we talked about why I like to skinnydip. I finally convinced her to try it. She loved it. We were out there for a 1/2 our or so when we decided to go back in. I went to my room and she to hers. Earlier that week she had hurt her back and a little while later she came to my door dressed in shorts and a tube top. She asked me if I would put some clothes on and work on her back. I said yes, but no to getting dressed. She layed down on ,my bed and I began to work on her back. As I was massaging her I was telling her how my girlfriend and I massage each other. I massage her for 30 minutes then we swithc and she does me. So I said that she shoudl massage me afterwards. She said if I do a good job and make her back feel better she will. I massaged her back and then we switched. I layed face down and she massaged me. When she was finishing up I asked her if she wanted me to massage her whole body, she said sure and layed back down.
As I was massaging her legs I asked if I could take her shorts off. She unbuttoned them and I slid them down reveling her biking underwear. I massaged her legs, thighs and butt then worked my way up her back. As I got to the tube top I asked if I could reomve that and she didn't answer me. So I just slid it off of her. She didn't resist. I worked onher back more and then her shoulders. After a few minutes I asked her to turn over. She rolled over and I finally got a good look at her breasts, I had always got peeks of them her and there, but now they were right in front of me.
I continued to work on her shoulders and figured I'd risk it, so I began to work my way to her stomach by going right over her breasts. I had gotten hard as soon as she had rolled over, but her eyes were closed and she didn't see. Now I was massaging her very large 36 C breasts. She had a large areola and they were so much different than my girlfriends who was much smaller and firmer. I didn't spend too much time up there as this was supposed to be a real massage. I moved down to her stomach and massage there for a few minutes. Then as I went to move down to do her legs again I slid my hand under her panties and asked if I could remove these. She said sure and raised her hips. I slid her panties off reveling her trimmed blonde bush. From her stomach I moved to her lower abs and as I got close to her pussy I could tell she was enjoying this as much as I was. I moved my hands to her inner thighs rubbing my thumbs right along the edge of her pussy. I would push in on each side of her lips with my thumbs.
This was my sister and I was beginign to get nervous. We were both naked, I was hard and she was getting wet. I stayed there for a little while then moved to her legs. As I finished each leg I moved back up for a final feel. I slid my hands up her legs, brushed my fingers right over her pussy then up to her breasts and over her head. I was kneeling between her legs and could have easily just layed donw onto of her and crossed the line (if I hadn't alread crossed it)
I then said it ws my turn and I lied down on the bed and she began to massage me in much the same way as before only she was naked now too. Once I turned over she duplicated all my moves including the abs and working the upper thighs. My hard on was throbbing for attention and I asked her if she would touch it. She gently stroked her fingers over it making it ache even more. I pushed my hips upwards and said more, but she said she couldn't. She then took some of the lotion and squirted it onmy hard on. She then placed my own hand on it. Taking her cue, I began to masturbate in front of her as she worked on my legs. Then before I knew if she said enjoy yourself and she left the room. After a few minutes I came.
For years I continued to walk around nude in front of her and we had skinnydipped a few more times, but we never did anything like that again. To this day we don't even mention it.
Growing up I always walked around nude. My two older sisters would bathe me. I remeber taking baths with my sister too. I remeber seeing them undress in front of me until I was about 7 yrs old. Then for what ever reason I stopped or they stopped, but it stopped.
At around 12 I began to leave my door open when changing or walk to the shower down the hall nude, sleep nude. If my sisters caught me all they would say was Nuddie Butt! I enjoyed getting caught more than doing it so i got crafty with my routine. Planning on the exit or just getting out of my underwear as one of them would walk in or by. It just became normal for them to catch me. Of course I also wanted to see them nude too and I remember trying to catch them in various states of undress. Walking in on them in the shower and such. By 16 I began to skinnydip in our pool at night. Usually my one sister would be out there smoking when I went out and I would just drop my towel and take a swim. I also began to sunbather nude around them too when my parents were away or out shopping. It wouldn't matter if my sisters were home, just as long as my parents were not.
At 18 my olders sister had moved out and the other (the one who smoked) was only 2 years older than me was still home. Our parents were away on vacation and I had spent a few days walking around nude in front of her. One night our neighbor had this party (she is gay). I was in my room naked of course when my sister came in to tell me they were getting wild next door. You can see their pool from my window and sure enough the girls had all stripped and were skinny dipping. They even had the lights on! two of the couples were having sex or fondeling each other at the least.
We both went down to the deck, me nude and my sister to watch more. Seeing all these girls fooling around and naked made me hard. Other than when my older sister caught me masturbating just as I was cumming, I had not been hard in front of them. Now there I was with this erection in front of her, out on our deck. I ignored it until she flicked it with her finger and said "Put that away" I said I can't, then I asked her if she wanted to go for a swim. She agreed and I began to walk out to the pool. She said your going like that? Our neighbors with the lights on would be able to see me as our pools were only 30 feet apart. I said sure, if they can do that then so can it. I proceeded to wallk naked to the pool. The neighbors didn't say anything as I got in.
hahah awesome mouse, works perfect *claps*
i was thinkin the same but you know how to say it!but it still creeps me out no matter how much people think its "normal"
At the risk of this not coming-out the right way:
Why are people so afraid of saying something isn't normal...? Not being normal does NOT mean BAD all the time. Normal (by definition) is being of-the-norm... the expected... typical.
I find nothing about the original topic of sleeping naked w/ sister or being naked around family members "normal". I am NOT saying it is wrong... I am NOT saying it is bad... I am saying it is not "typical". It is not something that is a commonly accepted practice.
Now... if it DOES happen more commonly behind closed doors and it isn't discussed... then it is still not considered the "norm" until the practice is acknowledged and shared in the widespread community (local, global, whatever).
I guess what (occasionally) irks me is the backlash some people get when they question the actions of others that are not percieved as normal. It is (in my eyes) perfectly acceptable to question or be inquisitive of actions or practices that are not "typical". It should be perfectly acceptable for someone to say "Sleeping naked with your sister is not normal" - Why? Because by definition, it is NOT normal.
Again... just to reiterate and overstate it: "Not normal" does NOT have to hold any negative connotation... it's not BAD, it's not WRONG (although it CAN be) but by definition, it just means different and not common.
[ steps off of soap-box ]
Sorry for my rant... I just had to spill that little bit.
Tylerdurden,
first of all she didn't even MENTION sexual feelings towards her sister. All she said was that they SLEEP naked in a bed together. Second of all, don't promote incest. Sibling on sibling action...? NO.
lilputytat,
As long as you are comfortable that's fine!
-Mariah
i agree... act on ur sexual feelings towards ur sister. and your boyfriend as well. maybe get all three of you involved.
Do what you want: if everyone is happy with the situation then theres nothing wrong
If that is how you have grown up and is what you are used to, then it's not weird at all.
I, as an outsider, would think a guy being naked with his two twin daughters sounds a bit risque. But from what you've said it sounds natural and innocent.
I would think a guy would go bananas over his girlfriend being naked and in innocent slumber with her twin sister. I think maybe 99% of the male populations has sexual fantasies about that exact thing.
He's just a little freaked out about it. I'm sure he does weird stuff naked too that he won't tell you about. he he.
now see... i dont find it weird at all... its actually qutie hot. lol. that idea that ur naked with ur sister... u cant tell me that nothing has ever enterd ur mind.
i'm with your bf on this...sleeping with your sister isnt that weird, but being nude while doing it.. makes it weird to mei personally dont agree with being nude around your father... but hey, its up to you.
I agree with Wally and will add a few thoughts of my own.
First, the fact that you are TWINS says alot. There is decades of research on the bond between twins. In my opinion, it does not matter one bit that you are nude with your sister or even sleep with each other. You spend the first 9 months naked and next to each other.
That said, my only cautionary thought is going to be on your future without your sister. Now, spending 16, 17, 18+ years sleeping naked with your twin sister everynite WILL be an adjustment when you find a partner and move on with your life. That kind of bond, while natural, is very powerful and will take alot of work adjusting to being without.
As far as being naked in front of your father, Wally's right, it's more a matter of outside perception. Just know that many people won't understand and WILL make judgemetns about that part of your life. Just EXPECT it. All that means is you have to make intellegent decisions about who you devulge that info to.
Hell, there are people here on this board who admit to turning off the lights in the bedroom before getting into bed with their partner because the don't want to be seen nude - even with the person theylove!
Nudity is natural - but in the USA it's seen almost as a kink or devient because of our puritanistic outlook on the human body.
Just my thoughts!
Interesting... how quickly people decide that what other people do in private is "strange." Since it's in private, for all we know 90% of the population may be doing it! (That's actually been proven on a number of issues.)
Is it strange that some people don't like chocolate ice cream?
Nudity is, of course, a somewhat charged and connotative issue and many people associate the naked body with sex. (Well, duh! LOL) But nudity doesn't HAVE to be about sex.
The other point that should be made is that "strange" doesn't necessarily equate to "bad."
But whenever you reveal your beliefs and practices, you open yourself up to be judged. If your bf thinks your family's comfort with nudity is unusual, that's one thing. If he thinks it's "wrong," that's something else.
Well I'm 20 and I walk around my house naked sometimes.
But, I only do it when I'm home alone, or it's just me and my sister (she's 18).
I would think it weird for a 16 year old girl to be walking around naked in front of her father though, or the father walking around naked in front of her, but that is just my opinion, and that's all it is, an opinion.
I personally don’t find it strange but strange is in the eye of the beholder ;)…on a more important note, all that really matters is that you are comfortable with it, your bf will just have 2 adjust