My b/f and I just started our sexual relationship and he confessed that he can't feel anything when he's inside me, anyone have any suggestions on toys, techniques, or positions to try.
Mon, 10/22/2007 - 00:29
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B/f says he can't feel it inside me...


Why is it that he can't feel anything??
Is he wearing a condom? Maybe he could try a ultra thin condom?
There is conditioning the body has to go through b/c from what I've seen... when guys masturbate.. they grip VERY firmly and pump fast... a vagina isn't going to be able to grip that tight... so it takes time to get accustomed to the different sensation.
There are a few threads on this topic Im sure... not an uncommon claim.
This may sound cheesy, but is there a size issue?
The vagina also increases in circumference when aroused making for a loose fit except at the opening where he can concentrate on gaining the friction he requires.
My friend says the same thing. Let him to stick it in your ass. My b/f loves it, he says it is 1000 times tighter than my vagina.
I went through what your boyfriend went through, I switched to microsheers, and it helped a bit, but I still had trouble feeling anything up until we had sex a few times. (about 4 or 5 times).
Try having him masturbate with a condom, just go out buy a pack of cheap latex condoms. (some brands or even wal mart carries plain condoms for cheap). Dont use good ones to masturbate because theyre usually pricey lol.