hi,
I have a question about my bf. Today we just finished class and I was looking at a magazine and had a page open with nude girl from behind for some commercial. He saw the page for like a split second. we were talking about class and I noticed that he had an erection. ( I could see it in his pants) I coudlnt believe that he got aroused by that not even very sexual picture, jsut the girls ass. Are all guys like that??? I mean we were at school..and tlaking about the class..no sexual mood nothing...this kinda bothers me..that he gets turned on by seeing a naked ass in a magazine for a split second...any advie or comments?? (we are both 21 by the way)
Thu, 04/01/2004 - 02:40
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bf aroused too easily
I would get one from the movement of the keys in my pocket or when my pants rubbed me the wrong way. Her perfume could set me off. I'd have to find a way to carry my books between classes to cover my embaressment.
i used to think mine were on a schedule. i'd get erections for no reason at all, and it always seemed to be the same time of day. just about any time i see my gf i get an instant erection, its still that way after 3 years of dating her. its not abnormal. take advantage of it!
ENJOY IT WHILE IT"S HAPPENING! hahahah
I think 99% of all the men on here were like that in their youth. It's all those hormones racing thru the body during puberty - yes..puberty can run for years and everyone is different.
It's god's way of making sure the plubming's right! hahaha
Do him and yourself a favor - don't bust his chops about this..or make him feel bad. He can't really control it and the potential damage you can do to a guy by making him feel dirty or devient in the long run is not worth it!
the problem may not be that he was horny from the picture.
there is a problem that guys often have, called "Hofnars" or Hard Ons For No Apparent Reason. For the longest time I would get a hard on at the end of every class i had...was so embarassed to stand up because of it. I'm the kind of guy that needs more than a basic nude back side to get hard as well, so it's not just that i'm overly horny.
so it could be a hofnar and not extreme horniness.
same here Jcrew...sometime I get hard for no reason at all...
damn im horny all the time lol probobly cuz im 17 though
So many times in so many ways that I could not prevent it. She could have just wet her lips or caught me staring at her or cross her legs or scratch her bust. A word or a smile. A gesture or a movement. Something she is wearing. You have no idea at how many ways & how easily a guy is turned on & can get an erection from being close to a girl or even thinking about them.
oberon is more right than a cop. Perfume, breeze, maybe the thought of what he'd want to do to you right then and there, anything.
Jacky234, your boyfriend is perfectly normal. I'm afraid it's just the nature of the beast.
And just for the record, it didn't have to be the girl's picture that got him going. It could have been the smell of your perfume, the tightness of his pants, a stray breeze, or just the fact that it was a day that ended in "y". Our junior associates don't always respond to our whims. They sometimes take on a life of their own... and there is absolutely nothing we can do about it.
So cut the guy some slack, and if you really care about him, you might offer to stand in front of him WHEN this happens again in a public place. It can be rather embarrassing for the guy, you know.
it's normal..atleast to me.
some people can get turned on by the slightest things, some people, it takes a while. and then, some people are in the middle.
no, not all guys are like that but then there are girls like that too. sometimes i can get turned on by the slightest things. it just all depends on my mood.
maybe he was just feeling extra horny today.