Since my boyfriend & I started performing oral sex, there has not been many times that he has been doing it to me. I asked him about it the other night (because I, honestly, really enjoy it), & he said it was because of an unpleasant taste & smell (& I would like to openly commend him for saying that!). I've never used a douche or anything like that, & the only thing I can think of (besides that it's just the way my body is) is that I use Veet & shaving creams/lotions when I shave.
So, my question would be if there is any way I can help that? I would really like to make it better if there is any way for me to do so. So, if anyone has suggestions or methods, please fill me in! Thank you all!
Thu, 11/22/2007 - 01:21
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Better Oral Sex?
Decide if you can live without it...there are some men who just don't like it. Don't add junk down below...makes it worse. And you cannot get someone to change their feelings unless he is very young & inexperienced; then he may just need time. If he has been around a bit..it will dwindle even more over time.
Sera is right, but then again, I hated going down on my first girlfriends but my second one, I couldnt get enough of it. It did have to do with smell and taste....first time was disgusting and left a sour aftertaste for the longest time. Second one, tasted delicious...literally.
Try having him go down on you in the shower...that way, the water will wash away any scent. Or if you want, so that it doesnt become a shower only thing, try washing multiple times a day. Once in the morning, once around late afternoon. THis should help keep you clean, and should cut down on the smell since it can somethimes get pretty bad (especially if you are an active person, and days before and after your period)
Vaginal mucus is an acquired taste. It takes a concerted effort sometimes to decide to like it.
Other than that, just make sure you bathe prior to a make out session.
Remember this when you are performing oral on him and whether or not you like the taste of semen or not, and if not, you have something to discuss when he asks why you won't let him ejaculate in your mouth.