talie , is right all girls r different but all like fingering while u suck her clit just start with one finger in out then the next finger let ur ears work , hear her sound like or dislike try to bend ur fingers to rub her g-spot . i belive all girls love it but u have to know she like up and down move or circles move
Vingo is correct as far as he goes; however, there are some incompletes and assumptions that need 'splainin'.
Fingering begins at the beginning--as an integral part of your caresses. As such fingering consists of stroking her hair, touching and grazing her skin, be it her cheeks, neck, lips, brows, shoulders, upper arms, forearms, hands and palms, chest, abdomen, legs, thighs, feet, buttocks, small of the back, back, etc., et cetera, etc.
As things progress and you approach her genitals, spend time stroking her pubic hair, fingering her Mons, and the folds of the upper vulva. The shaft of the clitoris is located between the folds and below the skin and it too can be stroked. Before ever venturing to touch the clitoris, a knowledgeable and caring lover will build his partners, excitement and anticipation by spending time fingering the Labia Majora (large lips) and then the Minora (inner lips). You can caress and rub and very gently tug on any of them. Kissing and sucking and licking work also.
From here you can certainly touch the tip of the clitoris, yet to further whet her appetite, why not fold the inner lips over the clitoris to tease her further by massaging it through them?
Working with the clitoris changes moment to moment and episode to episode. What works in the moment, today, may or may not work the same way next time. Take your cues from her reactions.
Know that the clitoris is extremely sensitive. As sensitive as you know the glans of your penis to be, the tip has twice as many nerve endings bundled more closely together. What we have spread out over quite a large area, she has twice of all in the space about equal to a pencil eraser!!! Be very very gentle. Too much attention will often lead to over stimulation. When she advises that she cannot stand any more touching, you must stop. Now, having said that, what is a kind, considerate lover to do? Well, sir, you do have options: First, you can again fold the lips over the clitoris and stimulate it indirectly; second, you can again rub the shaft; third, you can further finger the surrounding area and pieces-parts which will be quite pleasing, often further involving the clitoris indirectly.
The G-spot is given too much importance. First, many a woman is still a virgin so reaching it may not be possible. Second, for the G-spot to do anything for a woman, she must attain a pretty high state of arousal from all that has been described above. Even if you want to involve the G-spot, it is often a learned response and not something that is inherently a given.
Finally, in all that the two of you do for each other, take your cues from each other's response and reactions, explore and learn together.
I'll have to agree with vingo, women seem to love being fingered and massaging the clit at the same time.Especially if your sucking on the clit and rubbing her g-spot,that's what women seem to really like.You will definetly be able to know by there body language.
The G-spot is an illusive "spot". Not all women are able to enjoy its effects.
So, be you a guy or gal reading this, please know that rubbing this area is not a given. When it works, it seems to augment sensations derived by other means at the same time.
There is a whole thread on here with ideas if you have a look. But all girls are different.
talie , is right all girls r different but all like fingering while u suck her clit just start with one finger in out then the next finger let ur ears work , hear her sound like or dislike try to bend ur fingers to rub her g-spot . i belive all girls love it but u have to know she like up and down move or circles move
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Vingo is correct as far as he goes; however, there are some incompletes and assumptions that need 'splainin'.
Fingering begins at the beginning--as an integral part of your caresses. As such fingering consists of stroking her hair, touching and grazing her skin, be it her cheeks, neck, lips, brows, shoulders, upper arms, forearms, hands and palms, chest, abdomen, legs, thighs, feet, buttocks, small of the back, back, etc., et cetera, etc.
As things progress and you approach her genitals, spend time stroking her pubic hair, fingering her Mons, and the folds of the upper vulva. The shaft of the clitoris is located between the folds and below the skin and it too can be stroked. Before ever venturing to touch the clitoris, a knowledgeable and caring lover will build his partners, excitement and anticipation by spending time fingering the Labia Majora (large lips) and then the Minora (inner lips). You can caress and rub and very gently tug on any of them. Kissing and sucking and licking work also.
From here you can certainly touch the tip of the clitoris, yet to further whet her appetite, why not fold the inner lips over the clitoris to tease her further by massaging it through them?
Working with the clitoris changes moment to moment and episode to episode. What works in the moment, today, may or may not work the same way next time. Take your cues from her reactions.
Know that the clitoris is extremely sensitive. As sensitive as you know the glans of your penis to be, the tip has twice as many nerve endings bundled more closely together. What we have spread out over quite a large area, she has twice of all in the space about equal to a pencil eraser!!! Be very very gentle. Too much attention will often lead to over stimulation. When she advises that she cannot stand any more touching, you must stop. Now, having said that, what is a kind, considerate lover to do? Well, sir, you do have options: First, you can again fold the lips over the clitoris and stimulate it indirectly; second, you can again rub the shaft; third, you can further finger the surrounding area and pieces-parts which will be quite pleasing, often further involving the clitoris indirectly.
The G-spot is given too much importance. First, many a woman is still a virgin so reaching it may not be possible. Second, for the G-spot to do anything for a woman, she must attain a pretty high state of arousal from all that has been described above. Even if you want to involve the G-spot, it is often a learned response and not something that is inherently a given.
Finally, in all that the two of you do for each other, take your cues from each other's response and reactions, explore and learn together.
I'll have to agree with vingo, women seem to love being fingered and massaging the clit at the same time.Especially if your sucking on the clit and rubbing her g-spot,that's what women seem to really like.You will definetly be able to know by there body language.
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The G-spot is an illusive "spot". Not all women are able to enjoy its effects.
So, be you a guy or gal reading this, please know that rubbing this area is not a given. When it works, it seems to augment sensations derived by other means at the same time.