my first one was with girl on top, and it was ok, but i would not recomend it for a first time, because you kind a need to know how to move together. I think missionary is the best.

Well, TJ, typical male response!

The more comfortable a woman is the more likely both partners will have a satisfactory first outing. The woman being on top gives her the advantage of controlling force, pace and specific position. This is the most likely time for intercourse to be painful and helping her be comfortable is most important.

Some women will still prefer the male superior. In that case the higher the hips are elevated, the better the angles and the better control she has. This was my first, widely spread, heavily lubricated and well elevated and I had been "getting ready" for a long time. No pain, no blood, no response, no big deal. The lack of problems on the th first try made subsequent efforts much more enjoyable. Play for the long term and do not expect ecstatic reaction the first time. There is too much apprehension.

There is no reason to stick with just one position. You may want to try experimenting with several different positions until you find the one that is most comfortable for you.