Okay look, you have no need for sexual enhancers...why? Because its your first time, and your either going to last and last and last. (If your like me and masturbate a lot) or your going to go in 60 seconds or you will last a healthy 10 to 15 minutes. If she doesnt realize that the odds of you being a god in bed is low, then she needs to stop being so close minded.

What you do, is you do lots and lots and lots of foreplay. Even get her off once or twice then you PUT ON A CONDOM and you penetrate. Go slow, maintain control, and if you cum you cum. Then you pull out, dispose of the condom, continue to do foreplay and when your hard again, put on a new condom and continue. Do this for as long as either of you can hold out and both of you will be totally satisfied.

I mean if you are how you describe yourself, you should have no problem getting 2 or 3 erections. Back when I would run. (About 3 or 4 miles a day) I could go 3 times without having problems getting it back up.

So just be confident and focus on her during foreplay, and at least try to please her. (Dont worry if you dont make her cum cuz a lot of girls can enjoy sex without orgasms)

And if you really must use some time of enhancer to boost your stamina, you could use a numbing cream, basically it numbs the feeling in your penis so you dont get overly sensitive. The only problem is you cant get it on her because it will number her as well. I believe they have condoms like this

EXACTLY :D I mean she knows your a virgin right?

If not you should tell her, but I would have to say the fact that she is telling you she likes it rough means that she wants you to please her and is trying to help you help here

If she dont know then boy you better tell her lol.

Oh btw im a guy haha

Start slow so you get used to the feeling and get used to being inside her, and if you don't cum instantly then you can speed up and go a bit rougher and deeper. It is quite tiring going deep and fast in any case, so do it in short bursts. Go hard and fast for 10 seconds or so, then slow down. This will help you last longer. If you feel yourself getting too close before you want to, then slow right down and maybe even stop moving. Just stay inside her and kiss her for a while.

I would definitely not suggest getting some kind of pill or something for your first time... You never know what might happen, as Ducy said. You might go for ages and ages, or you might cum really quickly. Hell you might not even get hard when you are trying to enter, as happens to lots of people. Make your first few times without pills and stuff, then see how you go.

HAHA but arutha, nothing is more fun than rough hard sex that is just 15 to 20 minutes of solid thrusting, and when your done, your hips are unable to move, youve losted 20 pounds, and your totally exhausted!

VITAMINS!!!

Go see the sticky post entitled The Program, print it out, read it and then DO it!!

There's no such thing as a "sexual enhancement pill". Viagra is for people with erectile dysfunction - if your penis is in working condition what could you possibly think it will do for you? It's designed to increase bloodflow and absolutely nothing else... KIDS THESE DAYS. Yeesh.

Look, if you're that worried about lasting - go get some experience beforehand!

PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT.

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[QUOTE=Unfortunate_Virgin;215544]I want to purchase an over-the-counter sexual enhancement pill, so I can perform well for my girlfriend when I see her and (hopefully) make love to her this weekend.

[COLOR="Navy">There is no such thing in the real world no matter what you see in ads. Viagra, et al, are generally for older men who have a natural problem that keeps them from becoming erect. Similarly they are prescribed to a man who has a medical reason that makes becoming erect difficult. They won't do anything for, nor will a reputable physician prescribe them for a virile young man with no problem.[/COLOR]

I am young 23 (years of age), athletic, enrgetic, robust and very healthy. This will be my first sexual encounter EVER, and I'm insecure of how long I can last in bed being this is my first time.

[COLOR="Navy">What you have to understand is that the condition known as "Premature Ejaculation" can be a problem for many young men who have yet to learn how to control it. (Read the article on this listed in the Index.) PE is a fact of many a young man's life. It can also happen on occasion and in passing any time during the rest of our life. PE is nothing to be ashamed of. Just laugh it off and continue to make love. So you climax upon entering, pulling out the first time, or, during the first minute or so of stroking. It's only a big deal or a problem if you make it one. Understand that it may happen and just deal with it by continuing to make love, and, after your refractory period, have another climax.

The rule is to help your partner have an orgasm first, then you, then her, etc. You can often prolong your staying power by masturbating beforehand. Now, you can do this before you two get together, or, she can get you off as part of your lovemaking.

Learn the two techniques for handling the tendency to climax before you want to early on. Working on the exercise can do much for getting the two of you tuned in to each other in addition.[/COLOR]

She has had sex before and when I asked her how she likes to have sex, she stated she likes to have long, hard and rough sex.

[COLOR="Navy">This is fine; however, I believe your first several sessions should be loving, and slow, and deliberate. Lust is good, although, not necessarily the first time. If you decide on hard and rough the first time, make sure it also has a loving component.[/COLOR]

I'm pretty insecure about how well I can perform (because this is my first time having sex) and want to get a sexual enhancer thats over the counter (viagra is too much and risky I hear), that can hopefully assist me and keep my erection hard in the duration of sex. I'm afraid that I'll cum too soon, get soft fast, and won't last.
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This is your fragile male ego getting in the way. As a Ballroom dance instructor, I encounter this all the time with new students who want to perform perfectly, and knowing that they lack the skills, sometimes refuse to even get up out of their chair and practice for fear of making a mistake and appearing inferior in their woman's eye. This is just wrong.

Your concern has been addressed above. So you climax before you want to: no big deal unless you make it one. Just continue making love long into the night and have many more climaxes if this is what you want.

It is OK to feel insecure. It is common. Every guy new to sex feels the same way. [/COLOR]

First I plan on eating her out, and fingering her for the most part, before I penetrate her, so she can already be satisfied. Also, I'm relying on my physical prowess to hopefully play a factor in how I perform, but I am not too sure how my physical prowess can factor in this encounter.
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Please read the various articles listed in the Index that discuss the art and the techniques for making out and making love.[/COLOR]

I've been doing lots of Kegels, so hopefully this can help to some extent.

[COLOR="Navy">This is good.
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And last but certainly not least, I want to get a sexual enhancement. So what is the best over the counter sexual enhancer that I can buy? A pill, stimulant whatever that will help me perform and last longer? Something that isn't so costly like viagra.

Also, if I happen to resort to taking Viagra, I hear that the side effects can suck for a youngster like myself. I don't suffer from erectile-dysfunction, and I can and always do get a boner when in physical contact with a girl. I wouldn't mind taking Viagra, but I hear about the risk.

[COLOR="Navy">Answered. So you loose your erection, just let her rebuild it. Think about her hand and fingers working on your penis and just incorporate this into your love making. It is important to know and understand that regardless of age and/or experience, erections wax and wain. It is a fact of life. So too is rebuilding an erection that has gone soft. I bet you'll find that she will love rebuilding yours when this happens. Don't knock a good thing![/COLOR]

I know this sounds like silly question, but I really need some help and advice from anyone with superior sexual experience. This is my first time having sex, and I just want to "bang" my girlfriend and have bragging rights. I want to seriously make love to her, and give her an amazing experience she'll never forget (or at least try), which she stated she hasn't had with her former boyfriend or with any other sex partners.
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Then pay attention to her on an emotional level, first and foremost. The sex will take care of itself over time. Make love to her mind and her soul and the physical will follow. If you do these things well, the physical aspects can be worked within this loving framework. [/COLOR]

So if there is any advice on sexual enhancement pills I can get over the counter from a store or pharmacy, then please fill me in. Or even give me any advice techniques which can at least satisfy her.

[COLOR="Navy">There is no such pill, potion, or product.[/COLOR]

Thank you all for reading this. Any advice would be helpful.[/QUOTE]

Just relax and have fun. Practice lots and do not expect perfection from the get go, after all, did you ride a bicycle perfectly the first time you sat upon one? How about driving a car and in my case learning to fly?

Yes I believe in family guy they practiced with a block of swiss cheese! :p

What is the sticky post entitled the program & how do I find it? Thanks.

Peace, Les

What is the sticky post the program & where do I find it? Thanks.

Peace. Les

[quote=lmbjless;217388]What is the sticky post the program & where do I find it? Thanks.

Peace. Les[/quote]
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/married-long-term-relationships/23945-pr...

Also look under Long term relationships...for body worshiping

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/married-long-term-relationships/22724-bo...

Ducy, your reply about the numbing cream is good and if he wear a condom, it will not affect her. The problem with this however is than he may be way tired and the numbness is still there with the erect penis and cannot do much with it. So he has to be careful with the amount he uses.

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So just be confident and focus on her during foreplay, and at least try to please her. (Dont worry if you dont make her cum cuz a lot of girls can enjoy sex without orgasms)[/QUOTE]

Yeah you can tell your a guy...