Yesterday we went to the sand pits when nobody was there, it was just me my girl and her bestfriend, so we started making out then her friend left us alone cuz she knew what was going to happen. The we were in the backseat of my car and we were doing our thing you know but I was going hard then going soft, now I wionder if that was b/c that was our first time doing that stuff or b.c im a virgin, or cuz i was worried about getting caught, or her friend was near the car but facing the other way ( that was a bit werid), or could it have been the postion i was in??? like i unno but I told her I was a bit nervous that why i wasnt up and she compleytly understood omg i love her soo much. so are those some posssibiltys why i wasnt stadning at attention? cuz ne other time i have np.
Tue, 08/29/2006 - 16:59
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man the same thing happened to me. I lost my virginity in a hatch back Honda so it was hard the position sucked. My foot was on the dash board ha ha. I kept going hard then soft to. I thought it was the condom but I don’t know. I just had the same problem. Plus it was in a plaza late at night and cars were going by so I could have bin nervous to and it was my first time so probably all these things made me go soft.
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hey look take it from a girl my first time was ok but the girl is usually understanding even more if its her 1st time too! i dont knwo what it is about guys being virgins when you have sex with them but its more of a turn on for girls to know that they are special enough that you'd let them be your first. unless you were just anxious to lose it that you didnt care who it was and well in that case it would prob hurt her more! so your ok it'll prob be like that for the next couple of times. and for doing it in a car some positions make a girl squeeze her pc muscles really tight and that could cause you to go soft til you get used to it ya know? hope i helped in some way!